Kodi kulabadira mawu chipongwe mphekesera: ayamikira

Nthawizina moyo zimachitika chifukwa chakuti muli kumva alendo enieni, kapena M'malo mwake, okondedwa zoipa mawu, milandu, mnyozo. Kodi mumaganiza mu mkhalidwe umenewu? Kumene, chilakolako kuletsa Colca mawu poyankha. Ine nthawi zonse kuchita izo, ndi momwe kuyankha chipongwe kuti mawu anzeru, tiona m'nkhani ino.

Kodi ndi mitundu iti ya nkhanza kulibe, mmene kuwayankha?

1. Mnyozo ndi mawonekedwe akhakula (mwachipongwe, kutukwana). Ndisanawayankhe chipani ena kuti poyera mwano ndi wamwano, ndikuganiza, ndipo ngati inu mukuyenera ngakhale iyeyo? Atayankha m'njira yomweyo, iwe pansi pa mlingo wake. Kodi kulabadira mwano mawu kulira? Zikatere ndi bwino kuti modekha ndi coolly kuyika munthu pa malo ndi kum'tulutsa wafunsa aliyense pa iye.
2. Mwano, zobisika kuseri achilungamo Izitu n'zovutitsa (wafunsa). Kodi kulabadira mawu chipongwe mphekesera imeneyi? Pa akunenazo ayenera kukumana chimodzimodzi. Mwachitsanzo:

Interlocutor: Kodi pali chinachake mulibe kwenikweni kusamalira unakhalabe pa ntchito mpaka 10,00 madzulo.

Inu: Zikomo chifukwa cha chidwi chanu, koma inu mukudziwa, inu mwasiya dzulo kugwira ntchito pa nthawi, ndi maganizo muli koma ena rumpled ndi kudzisamalira.

ayamikira General

Ndi anthu, manyazi ena, amanena okha, n'zotheka kulikonse komanso nthawi ina iliyonse. Nthawi zonse n'kofunika kudziwa momwe kuyankha chipongwe ndi. Pansipa, ife kupereka mndandanda wa malangizo ambiri kukuthandizani kunja kwa kukambirana aliyense amakhumudwa kutuluka wopambana:

• Khalani anzeru kuposa munthu amene wakulakwirani. Inu chisakhale pa mlingo ofanana ndi munthu amene kuwonjezera mawu achipongwe ndi nthabwala sadziwa kanthu ndipo sindikufuna kudziwa;
• Ngati mnzanuyo akweza mawu ake inu, ndiye Mulimonsemo, musati kufuula kumbuyo pa iye. Ndi kokha kusokoneza zinthu ndi kubweretsa inu kunja kwa malire zomwe zikuoneka, ndipo iye akufunafuna;
• tonsefe tili ndi ufulu wofanana, ndipo ife tikhoza amalankhulana chimene tikufuna;
• musaiwale kuti munthu amene akuyesa kukutengerani inu nokha kapena kupweteka mawu woyenera okha chisoni;
• tiphunzire zimitsani mumtima. Nthawi zina, kuzizira ndipo tisaledzere malingaliro akadali bwino mtima ndi olusa;
• musakhale chete. Ngati inu anakhudza chizindikiro chako, muyenera Mulimonsemo. Kupanda kutero, inu pachiswe tisangalatse munthu chiguduli;
• ndi anthu amene muli koma kukhala njira iliyonse funsani, ndi bwino kuletsa Changu awo kwambiri, muziganizira zimenezi kusadziletsa chofunika kuyankha kwa inu m'tsogolo;
• Iwe wekha ndi dzisamalire! Chilichonse chimene munthu anena kwa inu, moyo wako uyu n'chapatali kusintha.

Kodi kulabadira mawu chipongwe kulira? Pali zambiri njira m'maganizo. Mwakukhoza kwa iwo adzakhala nthabwala. Kuchitira ndi kumwetulira kwa munthu amene akuyesa zingakukhumudwitseni wolalata kapena chipongwe. Inu kungafooketse izo ndi kupulumutsa wanu maselo mitsempha wawo.

Tafotokoza ngati yankho chikhalidwe kwa chipongwe ndi. Tikukhulupirira kuti izi nsonga zikuthandizani inu!