Kodi kupeza chikondi chenicheni?

Maloto woona, chakuya, yotopetsa chikondi mwanjira adza kwa munthu aliyense. Ena maganizo amenewa pitani mu zaka 16, anthu ena akuganiza zimenezo zokha kuyambira zaka 40, ndipo kokha wachitatu ndipo anachita kokha ku ukalamba kwambiri kuyamba amadziona kucha kwa kumverera uku. Kodi kupeza chikondi, kukhala?

Choyamba, chiphunzitso pang'ono. Mitundu ya chikondi anafotokoza kwambiri, ndi zophweka kuti wosokonezeka pamene kuwerenga magwero aakulu pa nkhaniyi. Kawirikawiri akusiyanitsa mitundu iwiri ya maganizo apamwamba - Eros ndi Agape. Koma zoona magwero makono zimatulutsa osachepera 8 yonse ya chikondi. Ife angakuuzeni za awiri otchulidwa. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi Agape, amene ankaona kwambiri "wolemekezeka" chikondi. mtundu amafuna nsembe mkulu, kudzipereka, maganizo zonse za mmene angakondweretsere wokondedwa. magwero Mkhristu amanena kuti chikondi wamkulu. Zochita za Agape khoka moyo anthu pafupifupi zimachokeradi, popeza ali osiyana wosadzikonda mtheradi. Amakhulupirira kuti munthu uyu akhoza musafuna basi Mulungu. Eros - chikondi cha dziko lapansi, yodziwika ndi kukopa sensuous ndi chidwi chachikulu thupi chikoka wokonda. Ndi izi mtundu wa chikondi kwambiri ankalimbikitsa chikhalidwe misa. Kumene, palokha chikondi cha Eros si chinthu choipa. Koma apa ndi kuganizira ngati abwino ndi sikuthandiza ngati inu mutakhala nokha ntchito "Kodi kupeza chikondi chenicheni." Bwino kutenga chitsanzo cha chikondi-Agape.

Ambiri, funso "Kodi kupeza chikondi?" Kodi si bwino anakamba. Ndipotu, tinganene woona wa osati kuyang'ana, kulenga izo. Ndiye funso ayenera kusintha pang'ono mosiyana, "Kodi kupeza bwenzi amene mungathe kudalira kwambiri ndi ubwenzi wabwino?" Koma zimatengera kwambiri inuyo, luso lanu ndi akufuna kumanga ubale. Ndiyeno funso ndi lakuti: "? Kodi ndikufunika kuchita ndi kumanga maubale, woyenera kutchedwa chikondi chenicheni." Kuyankha mafunso onse.

Kodi kupeza bwenzi lanu ngati njira za makolo ngati kufufuza si kuthandiza kuti anzake ndi abwenzi? Fotokozani Intaneti. A njira zabwino - chibwenzi Intaneti, kuphatikizapo lonse. Popeza kuti kusankha anthu chidwi pa malo m'mayiko ambiri kwambiri. Pa wina chidwi "dziko" wakonzekera (phungu wamkazi) Kodi chifukwa cha khumi ndi ziwiri kunja. Dziko lonse sizikusoweka kuti okha anyamata Chirasha ndi atsikana. Sikuti onse kuphunzira chinenero mosavuta. Koma chinenero, Mulimonsemo, ndi wofunika kwa inu, ndipo ndi zothandiza ntchito, ndi chitukuko. chikondi chenicheni kumafuna kuti titherepo nthawi ndi khama. Muli okonzeka kupeza yake chilichonse? Chabwino, ntchito maluso chinenero. Osati zokhazo malo chibwenzi. Pali chidwi zibonga pa Intaneti, maonekedwe thematic. Mukhoza kupeza munthu amene amakonda mabuku ngati inu muli, ndi zokonda zofanana pafupifupi sanalonjeze kuti kudzayankhula afotokoza.

Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti ubwenzi ndi mnzanu wabwino kumanga? Choyamba, kuphunzira kukhululukira. Ngakhale kwambiri zogwirizana awiriawiri mwambo kusagwirizana ndi makani. Choncho, popanda mphamvu zakukhululukira ndi kuiwala ubwenzi wabwino sungathe amangidwe. Kuphunzitsa ubale ndi okondedwa kuti kale. Pamene ubale wanu zilipo sizingakhale bwino, izo zimapangitsa neza kuyamba kufunafuna naye, ndipo muyenera kuyiwala za funso "Kodi kupeza chikondi." Pamene unagona bwino, tingapite zotsatirazi: kuphunzitsa nokha kuti zonse kupeza njira kusangalatsa anthu kwa inu. Kungakhale mphatso wodzipereka mawu okoma, yaing'ono kapena osakhala kudzipereka kapena nkhani mu njira zabwino kwa anthu wachitatu (miseche mosinthanitsa). Komabe tiyenera kuyang'ana zabwino mwa anthu ena, zikuthandizani inu mukuona dziko m'njira yosiyana ndipo anthu wokongola kwambiri, kotero inu kudzakhala kosavuta kupeza chikondi. Pansi ndi kulemba pa pepala osachepera 10 makhalidwe abwino ya wokondedwa amene zimakuvutani. Idzakhala maphunziro chachikulu ndi kukonzekera kuonetsetsa kuti ankakonda tsogolo lake wosankhidwa kapena wokondedwa.

Kodi kupeza chikondi? Monga kukuza malo a kusaka ndi kuyamba ntchito pa nokha. Ndipo posachedwapa adzakhala mmodzi inu tadikira moyo wanga wonse.