Kodi kusinkhasinkha kunyumba?

Kusinkhasinkha. mawu Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa enigmatic ndi maganizo m'dziko lathu. Akatswiri ambiri Western kuti, kanthu ndi kanthu koposa kudziletsa malingaliro ndi chiwawa cha m'maganizo, pamene Chimonko kum'mawa nachita kusinkhasinkha zaka zambiri, ananena kuti njira yapadera ndi vuto lililonse kumaliza kudziletsa nzeru ndi kuwongolera maganizo awo ndi mzimu. Kodi kusinkhasinkha n'kutani? Kodi kuti agwirizane luso limeneli wakale wa kusonkhana yokha ndi chilengedwe ndi kupeza bata wathunthu ndi luso mwabwinobwino kusonyeza nthawi iliyonse? Kodi kusinkhasinkha? Kodi kusinkhasinkha kunyumba? The aima la kulingalira munthu? Tsopano, ife tipeza. Choyamba, tisaiwale kuti kusinkhasinkha chodabwitsa chapadera, chimene chimafuna inu ku malo omasuka ndi mtima wofuna kupita pa msewu wodzilamulira chidziwitso ndi dziko lonse inu.

Chimene icho zachokera kusinkhasinkha? Ndipo iye anayambitsa imodzi mwa mfundo wamkulu wa anthu, umene, mwanjira ina, zimakhudza munthu aliyense padziko lapansili. Ndipo mfundo imeneyi - zonse kusinkhasinkha zonse zikuchitika ife, komanso pamaso wathu. M'mbuyo, ndende ndi cholinga, koma Choyamba ndi kukambirana. Zilibe kanthu kaya nkhaniyi kucheza ndi munthu wina kapena kulankhula mkati pakati yin wanu ndi yang, awiri lotsutsa, koma nthawi zonse ofanana mbali, omwe ali ndi pang'ono za ena. N'zosadabwitsa kuti zimenezi zitenga ndithu maganizo ndi chauzimu mphamvu anthu, kotero kusinkhasinkha lakonzedwa kuchepetsa mtengo wa mphamvu, choncho maganizo anu maulendo angapo zikwi waphindu ndiponso watanthauzo.

Kodi kusinkhasinkha woyamba? Kuyamba, muyenera kudziwa m'mene Letsani nkhaniyi kuti chichitike mu malingaliro anu, ndi mtima osati wa bungwe, sangathe sangathe bwino kugwira ndende lolondola ndi kuzindikira iwo, imbaenda zotsatira zowononga. Pofuna kuti adziwe kusinkhasinkha, inu poyamba timudziwe bwino ndende. Luso ichi, muyenera kuphunzira kuganizira chinthu wosakwatiwa, disabling maganizo anu onse ndi maganizo, ndi maganizo ndi malingaliro. Kodi kusinkhasinkha ndi zotsatira pazipita? Kudziika pa chitukuko cha ndende ndi nyenyezi, lawi kandulo, wosakwiya madzi. Only pamene muphunzira zimitsani anu onse 4 mphamvu, kukhudza, kununkhiza, kulawa, kumva, ndi masomphenya kugwiritsa ntchito gawo, mudzakhala okonzeka kupereka kusinkhasinkha. Kumbukirani kuti musanayambe kusinkhasinkha, muyenera kukonzekera zinthu yake kunyumba. Pangani malo osiyana kuti nthawi zonse adzakhala oyera ndi lowala, limene mudzakhala omasuka maganizo ndi thupi.

makalasi kusinkhasinkha akhale yekha, chifukwa, choyamba, kutsutsana ndi inu, koma akunja akhoza kuwononga bwino osalimba mtendere. Sudziphunzitsa wekha kuganizira nthawi yomweyo ndipo masana, chifukwa danga sakonda kusintha mwadzidzidzi kwambiri otaya alipo milandu. Tsopano tiyeni tisunthire kwa malo kumene mukufuna kukhala yosinkhasinkha. Monga amadziwika, zolondola kwambiri ndi zamaluwa ke, chifukwa ngati iye kukwaniritsa thupi adzakhala ofanana ndi maonekedwe auzimu. Ngati zimakuvutani kukhala mu malo zamaluwa, woyenera ina omasuka malo amene sayambitsa inu mavuto aliwonse kuchokera ukhale n'kupuma. Ngati mwaganiza pa aima, muli kusankha wotani kusinkhasinkha ayenera kuchita, chifukwa motsutsana ndi zolinga zimene munthu kuyandikira kwa luso limeneli, pali njira yosiyanasiyana ya kusinkhasinkha. Ambiri lero kupuma kusinkhasinkha zimene zoona, akupanga kayendedwe kupuma anu, kotero inu mukhoza kukhadzikika ndi udzu maganizo zosafunika ndi kupeza njira zikuluzikulu. Ine ndikuyembekeza kuti nkhani adzakupatsani mayankho a funso waukulu, mmene kusinkhasinkha? Zabwino zonse.