Kodi mungadziwe bwino bwanji? Mafunso oyambirira kwa anyamata ndi atsikana

Kutentha kwafika, magazi akutentha, akuthamanga kupyolera mu mitsempha, pali kufunikira kofulumira kuti mudziwe bwino, kulankhulana, kukonda, kusamalira wina. Ziwerengero zachisoni zimati: anthu osakwatira chaka chilichonse. Pano pitani, mwachitsanzo, mnyamata ndi mtsikana wina kwa wina ndi mzake. Onse awiri ali osungulumwa, mumtima - moto, m'maso - mpikisano, mu matupi - chikhumbo ... Amafalitsa, monga mawu akupita, monga zombo zombo ... Ndipo panalibe "kugwedezeka" ... Ndipo iwo ankakondana wina ndi mzake, ndipo onse anawatsata!

Koma izi zikanakhala zosiyana: chiyanjano, chidwi, chifundo, abwenzi ambiri ndi zofuna, chipsompsone choyamba, usiku woyamba, kukangana koyamba, chisokonezo ... Bright, chidwi, funny! Moyo suli chabe!

Kukhalitsa kwamuyaya

Chifukwa chodziwika chifukwa cha kusagwira ntchito ndi mantha. Kuopa kukanidwa, kusamvetsedwa, kukhumudwa. Kuwopa kuwonekera mopusa. Kutetezeka kumapambana, ndipo munthuyo amakhalabe-odnoshenek.

Kuopa uku kuyenera kugonjetsedwa. Si zophweka kuchita izi, ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma zotsatira zake ziposa zomwe mukuyembekeza, ngati mutaphunzira kuti mudziwe bwino. Kulondola - kumatanthauza poyamba. Popanda mawu awa: "Mtsikana, ndi apongozi ako, kodi sizowopsa?" Tiyenera kusankha mafunso oyambirira tikakumana ndi anyamata kapena atsikana. Ndipo ngakhale ngati mukuyembekezera cholephera - musataye mtima! N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kudziŵa bwino munthu amene samasangalala kwenikweni?

Mafunso oyambirira kwa atsikana: momwe mungadziwire malingaliro?

Sankhani mtsikana wokongola, ndipo makamaka awiri (ngati muli ndi bwenzi, siwowopsya), bwerani ndikufunseni kuti: "Atsikana, koma mulibe pensulo?" Nthawi zambiri, pensulo kapena pensi (ngakhale pensulo yokozera mivi m'maso mwake) ndi .

Mawu otsatirawa: "Ndipo tsopano ikani mafoni anu." Kuchokera kuzinthu zoterezi, atsikana nthawi zambiri amataya ndi kupereka manambala awo a foni. Musathamangire, dikirani tsiku kapena awiri, ndiyeno itanani, pemphani kwinakwake.

Tsatirani mtsikanayo kwa kanthawi, ndiye mum'imbireni ndi kumufunsa kuti: "Mtsikana, tawonani, chonde ndiri ndi chikopa pa malaya anga?" Mosasamala kanthu za zomwe achita, pitirizani kuti: "Ndiyeno ndikutsatirani kwa mphindi zisanu, ngati kuti mwamangidwa - Mwinamwake, iwo ankagwedezeka. "

Mutha kudziŵa bwino pamzerewu. Funsani mtsikanayo patsogolo panu: "Mtsikana, musadandaule kuti muli ndi mnyamata wabwino komanso wosakwatiwa?" Monga momwe mukuonera, mafunso oyambirira pazomwe mumadziwana nawo ndi othandiza kwambiri kuposa nthawi zonse: "Hi! Tiyeni tidziwe bwino? "

Ndipo atsikana angathe?

Alibe masiku omwe amakhulupirira kuti ndi anyamata okha amene ayenera kudziŵa bwino. Pakadali pano, ziwonetsero zonse zawonongedwa, azimayi amamasula amtekisi. Atsikana anayamba kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Ndipo bwanji? Choncho, kuti tiwone atsikanawo, tidalandanso mafunso oyambirira kuti timugwire munthuyo mumtima.

Zitsanzo zochepa

Malo abwino pamsonkhano wotsatira ndikuyimira. Powona mnyamata wabwino, muyenera kupita kwa iye osamudziwa ndikudziyesa kuti mukuyang'ana chinachake mu thumba lanu. Patapita nthawi, mumamuuza kuti: "Mnyamata iwe, iwe sungandithandize? Sindikupeza foni yanga m'thumba langa, chonde ndiloleni ine, chonde. " Mwina sangakukane. Choncho, chiwerengero chake chidzalembedwa pa mndandanda wa maitanidwe obwera.

Yendetsani msewu kwa mlendo wosangalatsa ndikufunseni kuti: "Kodi muli ndi kampasi?" Pamene akuchoka pa funso losayembekezereka, funsani kuti: "Ndi mapu otsogolera pamtunda?" Pambuyo yankho lolakwika, funsani funso ili: "Chabwino, muli ndi foni ngakhale Kodi mungadye? Ndiuzeni nambala yanu. " Mwinamwake, mnyamatayu adzakondwera ndi kuseketsa ndi kulimbika mtima.

Mukhoza kupita kwa munthu wosungulumwa pa benchi ndikuyamba kukambirana, ngati kuti mumadziwana kale. Mnyamatayo akamanena kuti sakukudziwani, dabwa ndipo mufunse ndi kumwetulira kuti: "Kodi iwe si Andrew?" Pepepesa, nenani kuti mwakumana ndi mnyamata wina wotchedwa Andrew pa intaneti, anavomera kukomana naye pakiyo, ndipo sanabwere . Patapita nthawi, foni yanu imapanga (mgwirizano woyamba ndi mnzanu). Pambuyo pa kuyankhula pang'ono, mumamfotokozera mnyamatayo kuti chibwenzi ichi chinakuchititsani inu. Ndipo mutu wa zokambirana ulipo kale!

Pitani ku msewu mumsewu ndikufunseni kuti musonyeze dzanja lanu. Ndiye muyambe "kulingalira": kuti akudziwitseni mtsikana wokongola, ndipo adzakondana wina ndi mzake, komanso kuti adzakhala osangalala palimodzi, ndi zina zotero. Zowonjezereka, akuganiza kuti mukukamba za inu nokha. Ndipo ngati "malipiro" a "kudzinenera" tengani nambala yake ya foni.

Mafunso oyambirira kwa anyamatawa amagwiranso ntchito, mudzawona kuti mnyamatayo sangathe kukutsutsani.

Ndipo momwe mungayankhire molondola?

Otshivat akufunikanso kukhala wokhoza pachabe kuti asataya nthawi pa munthu wosasangalatsa. Kotero ngakhale atakufunsani mafunso okondweretsa komanso oyambirira, koma simukufuna kuti mudziwe bwino, gwiritsani ntchito mfundo zotsatirazi. Mwachitsanzo:

• "Ndiwe ndi maso okongola bwanji, mtsikana!" - "Ndipo ndili ndi ubongo wa nkhuku ndi mawere a silicone."
• "Ndili ndi anyamata atatu, sindingathe kudziwa 4th."
• "O, ndipo inu simukupita nane ku msonkhano wa gulu lachipembedzo? Pewani zinthu zonse zadziko! "

Wina akhoza kuyankha funsoli ndi funso:

• "Kodi iwe, munthu wanzeru, podziwa chaka chomwe Pushkin anadzipachika yekha?" (Pa nthawi yomweyi yang'anani chidziwitso chake cha biography ndi zochitika za imfa ya wolemba ndakatulo wamkulu wa Chirasha.)
• "Kodi ukuganiza kuti ndine wabwino kuposa inu, kapena ndinu woipitsitsa kuposa ine?"

Kaya mafunso oyambirira ochokera kwa anyamata kapena atsikana, nthawi zonse muzidziyesa nokha ngati mukufunikira chidziwitso ichi. Ndipo potsirizira: kumbukirani kuti kuti mukwaniritse kwathunthu muyenera kuyang'ana bwino, kununkhiza ndi kumwetulira mokondwera!