Kukhala wangwiro, Psychology
Kodi "zabwino" ndi chiyani?
Masiku ano m'chinenero chathu mawu ambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito, omwe amakhoka kuchokera ku mayiko ena ndi zikhalidwe zina. Komabe, ngakhale zili choncho, ambiri mwa iwo ali ozikika kwambiri ndikukhazikika mu gawo lathu. Ndi chifukwa chake tsopano ndikufuna kukuuzani zomwe ziri "zabwino": tanthawuzo la mawu ndi zosangalatsa zonse zokhudza ntchito yake.
Tanthauzo
Tiyenera kunena kuti m'zigawo zonse za sayansi mawu oti "zabwino" ali ndi tanthawuzo lomwelo.
- Philosophy. Zabwino ndizovomerezeka, zabwino. Izi ndizo zomwe zilipo ndizoona.
- Ndale. Kumatanthauzanso chinthu chabwino, chomwe chinakhazikitsidwa pa zochitika zammbuyomu.
- Psychology, psychoanalysis. Zabwino ndi zabwino. Zotsutsa za mawuwo ndi "zoipa," zomwe ndi zoipa. Kaŵirikaŵiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito mosiyana ndi mawu akuti "chikondi" ndi "chidani" mu sayansi iyi.
Pali zolemba zambiri zambiri. Ngati mungalankhule mwachindunji, ndiye kuti mawu akuti "chitsimikizo" tanthauzo la mawu afupika kukhala ofunika, ku chinachake chomwe chikupita ndi chizindikiro "+".
Kodi ndi chani chabwino?
Ndizosangalatsa kuganizira mawu ngati "zabwino". Nthawi zambiri zimapezeka m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Masiku ano amasangalala ndi anthu a ntchito zosiyanasiyana. Ngati tilankhula za tanthauzo la tsiku ndi tsiku, ndiye kuti zokhudzana ndi mfundo zitatu izi:
- Malingaliro olondola a dziko, ndiko, maganizo.
- Kukoma mtima, kutanthauza, kukhala ndi mtima wabwino kwa onse ozungulira, mosasamala kanthu za zinthu zosiyanasiyana.
- Kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, pamene munthu angathe kusangalala ndi zonse zomwe zimachitika.
Kulankhula mobwerezabwereza, zabwino ndizoyimira-ndi-goness kuona zabwino kwambiri osati padziko lozungulira, komanso anthu osadziwika ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana.
Zabwino - ndi zabwino?
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti chinthu chimodzi chokha cha moyo sikokwanira. Anthu omwe amangochita zinthu zabwino zokha sagwirizana bwino ndi moyo. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amachokera ku izi. Chifukwa chake, akatswiri amanena kuti: kuti moyo ukhale wodzaza, kuphatikiza pa zabwino, muyenera kukhala ndi zomangirira komanso zowonjezera.
Ngati munthu ndi wabwino kwambiri, zingakhale zovomerezeka kuti zikhale pafupi (zosakhala zomangamanga). Amatha kuona moyo mwachimwemwe, koma ndi zovuta komanso zosatheka kuyandikira moyenerera njira yothetsera mavuto. Munthu woteroyo, akupitirizabe kusangalala ndi zonse zomwe zimachitika, pamene akukumana ndi zovuta kapena zovuta. Ndipo izi ndizolakwika, chifukwa vuto silinathetse, koma likuyambitsidwa. Apo ndiyeno pali funso ndi udindo. Munthu "wabwino" sakufuna kutenga udindo. Amangoganizira za chimwemwe chenicheni, kwa ena onse samangosamala. Choncho, kuti mumvetsetse zomwe zili zabwino, muyenera kuganizira mofatsa mfundoyi. Pambuyo pake, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mndandanda wa mndandanda waumphawi umayamba kuonedwa ndi cons. Ndipo ichi ndi njira yolondola, kuwulula chowonadi chenicheni cha zinthu.
Maganizo abwino
Kudziwa kuti munthu wabwino ndi wotani, kumvetsera kumatengera kuti munthu akhale ndi maganizo abwino. Ndi chiyani? Kotero, lingaliro ili silingagwirizane ndi njira yodzipangira yekha aliyense. Kuganiza moyenera sikuti munthu akhale wakhungu. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti mutha kudzipangitsa nokha pa nthawi zovuta kwambiri pamoyo, kuti muzitha kuchita zabwino panthawi yovuta. Maganizo abwino ndi chiwonetsero chabwino, chomwe chidzatha kupanga maganizo, kukulitsa mphamvu zamkati za munthu ndikuthandizira kuthandizira. Koma ndibwino kuti musaiwale kuti kuwonjezera pa maganizo, nkofunikanso kugwira ntchito, mochuluka komanso mwakhama. Ndipotu, kokha pamtundu woterewu ukhoza kukwaniritsa zotsatira. Pokhakha, kuganiza moyenera sikudzakhudza moyo.
Zotsatira zabwino
Ndifunikanso kumvetsetsa zotsatira zake zabwino. Palibe amene angatsutsane ndi mfundo yakuti munthu aliyense ali ndi mphamvu ya kunja. Winawake, wina ndi wamng'ono. Zimachokera ku mphamvu imeneyi zomwe zimadalira kwambiri moyo wa munthu. Choncho, nkofunika kuti munthu amene ayenera kukhala nawo ali ndi makhalidwe abwino kwambiri, anapereka chitsanzo chabwino. Ichi ndi chikoka chabwino.
Za kusintha kokhazikika
Pankhaniyi, nthawi zambiri ife tikukamba za anthu omwe, chifukwa cha zifukwa zina, sangaganizidwe kuti ndi zabwino. Kapena ali ndi zolakwa zina zomwe akuyenera kulimbana nazo. Kusintha kwabwino ndi kusintha komwe kumachitika ndi munthu amene ali ndi mphamvu kapena zotsatira zake.
Pa chithunzi chabwino
Ndipo ngati yankho laling'ono, ndikufuna ndikuuzeni zambiri za chithunzi chabwino. Zonsezi ndizo zigawo zonse za munthu amene ali wokongola. Ichi ndi fano yomwe mukufuna kukhala nayo. Apa ndi pamene magulu amalowa, monga chisonkhezero chabwino ndi kusintha komweko. Pambuyo pake, atakhala ndi cholinga, munthu wanzeru amayamba kugwira ntchito payekha.
Momwe mungakhalire munthu wabwino
Pozindikira zomwe ziri "zabwino", ndipo pozindikira kuti kukhala ndi chitsimikizo chokwanira sikokwanira, tikuyenera kudziwa m'mene tingapezere kusintha. Kodi muyenera kudziwa ndi kuchita chiyani?
- Muzochitika zonse ndikofunika kuyang'ana zinthu zabwino. Ngakhale pa zolakwika, munthu ayenera kuwona chinthu chabwino, atapeza phindu lalikulu pa izo.
- Muyenera kulumikizana ndi anthu abwino. Ngati mnzanu wapamtima akugwirizana ndi zoipa, kudziteteza ku izi zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri.
- Muyenera kutamanda ndikudzipangira nokha. Komabe, izi siziyenera kukhala zopanda nzeru.
Ndipo ndithudi, muyenera kumumwetulira moona mtima, kusamalira thanzi lanu komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Kukhala ndi zonsezi, kukhala munthu wopambana kungakhale kophweka kwambiri.
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