Chiyanjano choyankhulana

Kapangidwe ka kuyankhulana pakati pa anthu ndikumagwirizana, kuyankhulana ndi kuzindikira. Aliyense wa maphwandowa ali ndi makhalidwe ake enieni. Mwachitsanzo, gawo loyankhulana likudziwika ndi kusinthana kwa zochita, ndiko, bungwe la kuyanjana pakati pa anthu. Malingaliro ali mu ndondomeko ya kuzindikira, kudziwana wina ndi mzake kudzera kuyankhulana, komanso kukhazikitsidwa kwa kumvetsetsa. Njira yolankhulirana yolankhulirana ndi kulumikizana mwachindunji pakati pa anthu angapo. Pankhaniyi, "chidziwitso" chikhoza kuonedwa monga malingaliro, maganizo, zofuna, malingaliro, malingaliro ndi zina zotero.

Maphwando onse kuyankhulana amafunikanso kulingalira mwatsatanetsatane.

Kulankhulana popanda kuyankhulana sikungatheke. Nthawi zonse ndi koyenera kukumbukira kuti mbali yolankhulirana yolankhulirana ndi yofunikira kwambiri kwa ophunzirawo. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti chikhalidwe cha kusinthana kwa chidziwitso chilichonse kupyolera mu dongosolo la zizindikiro chingakhudzire kwambiri maphwando onse oyankhulana. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kusinthanitsa kwa chidziwitso nthawizonse kumatanthauza kusintha kwa khalidwe la munthu wina. Zizindikiro zina zimakhudza kwambiri ophunzira pa kulankhulana. Zizindikiro zoyankhulana zimagwira ntchito yomweyo monga zida zogwira ntchito.

Komanso, njira yolankhulirana yolankhulirana ikhoza kukhala mawu (kutumizidwa kwa chidziwitso kupyolera mukulankhula) ndi osalankhula (kutumiza uthenga mwazochitika zosiyanasiyana).

Njira zamalankhulidwe zolembedwera zimagwiritsidwa ntchito (mwachidule) ndikulankhula momasuka.

Pali lingaliro lakuti mlingo wamalankhulidwe, mawu omveka bwino ndi maumboni ena omwe amatsatiridwa amatchulidwanso ngati gulu la mawu. Komabe, popeza kuti zinthu zimenezi sizitha kungowonjezera, koma zimawononga tanthauzo lenileni la zomwe zanenedweratu, zingakhale zotsimikiziridwa kuti zonena zenizeni sizinali "mawu". Choncho, njira zotsatirazi zotsutsanazi ziyenera kusiyanitsidwa:

- mdulidwe amatanthauza, tempo, mawu, mawu, mawu, mawu, chiyankhulo ndi zina zotero;

- malo oyankhulana, kutanthauza, mtunda, mtunda pakati pa ophunzira kuyankhulana;

- njira zamakono, zomwe ndizochita, manja, thupi, nkhope, kugwira wokondedwa, etc;

- malo ndi nthawi yolankhulana;

- zonunkhira: munthu kapena chilengedwe;

- zolemba, zovala, zovala, tsitsi ndi zina zotero.

Kotero, psychology ya kulankhulana imakhala mu "kufotokoza" kwa zizindikiro zosayankhula ndi mawu. Malinga ndi lingaliro la akatswiri a maganizo, tinganene kuti munthu amadziwa za 10% za zomwe ubongo uli nazo. Motero zikutsatila kuti kusanthula ndi kulembetsa zinthu sizomwe zimadziwika pazomwe akudziwa.

Dziwani kuti mbali yolankhulirana yolumikizana ingaphatikizepo zolepheretsa. Zolepheretsa zoterozo ndizozengereza. Kulepheretsana kulankhulana kungabwere chifukwa chosowa kumvetsetsa. Zifukwa izi ndizosiyana kwambiri. Izi zikhoza kukhala zosiyana ndi zamalonda, zachikhalidwe ndi ndale. Iwo amapanga kutanthauzira kosiyana kwa malingaliro omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito polumikizana, komanso malingaliro osiyana, malingaliro a dziko ndi maganizo.

Zitha kuthetsa kuti mbali yolankhulirana yolumikizana ndi gulu la maganizo. Popeza kulankhulana ndilofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu ndi chimodzi mwa zofunika zomwe aliyense wa ife amafuna. Kulankhulana kumapanga dongosolo la maubwenzi a anthu ku dziko lonse lozungulira. Kuchokera ku luso loyankhulana nthawi zambiri kumadalira kukula kwa chikhalidwe chathu, kupambana kwathu m'moyo ndi zina zotero. Aliyense ayenera kuyankhula molondola.