Malamulo kulankhulana ndi anthu: mosavuta ndi mogwira

Communication - mbali ya moyo wa munthu. Tsiku lirilonse tiyenera amakhudzana ndi anthu ambiri - ndi nyumba, ndi anzake, anzake amalonda, abwenzi, komanso ndi alendo enieni - mu sitolo, kumalo okwerera sitima ndipo m'misewu. Nkofunika kuti kulankhulana uyu anali zosangalatsa interlocutors onse, komanso zipatso. Ndipotu cholinga chake chachikulu? Ndiko kulondola, nzeru zambiri, maganizo, makhalidwe. Izo ziyenera kutsindika mawu 'mwagwirizana', ndiko kuti, aliyense wa interlocutors ayenera kumvetsa ndi azimva ena, kapena mkwiyo mungakumane m'tsogolo, kusamvetsetsa, ndipo pamapeto pake - ndi mikangano. N'chifukwa chake aliyense wa ife ayenera kudziwa malamulo amalankhulira anthu. N'chiyani chomwe iwo ali - ichi ayankhidwa m'nkhaniyi, kotero chonde werengani mosamala nkhani Ndithu zothandiza inu.

Kulankhula?

Zamaganizo kuti malamulo amalankhulira anthu - ndi mtundu wa malamulo osalembedwa. Ndi bwino kukhala ndi conversationalist wamkulu, amene maganizo nthawi zonse kumvetseredwa komanso kuti nthawi zonse olandiridwa mlendo m'nyumba. Kulankhulana ndi kofunika kwambiri pa zokambirana malonda ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi. Inde, sikukukolana mu moyo wabwinobwino. Munthu amene adziwa za malamulo kulankhulana ndi anthu ndi kuwagwiritsa ntchito kuchita, nthawi zambiri mabwenzi abwino ndi anzawo, Iye adali okondwa.

Pansi ndi kuponderezedwa!

Koma kodi mungatani ngati sanadziwe kulankhula ndi ena? kuyesa kulankhula ndi munthu mumaopa akubwera, mungayambe kulephera kapena ndayiwala kunena kwathunthu. Zimachitika? Ndiye kutsatira malangizo wosalira zambiri. Choyamba, kumbukirani ulamuliro Choyamba ndi chofunikira: muli chilichonse manyazi ena. Mukhoza kulankhula aliyense pa maziko ofanana. Funsani mafunso, kupempha thandizo kapena kugawana nzeru. Communication - masoka njira kwathunthu, kotero kutaya ndi maofesi ndi kuyamba kulankhula kwa munthu aliyense. Inu mukuona, ziri zophweka. Ndipo tsopano ife 5 malamulo amalankhulira anthu. Ndipotu pali ena ambiri, koma ife kutisonyeza zofunika kwambiri.

Malamulo a kuyankhulana pakati pa anthu

Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukhala conversationalist wabwino:

1. Mvetserani bwinobwino kwa wina ndi mzake ndipo tisasokoneze. Alankhule, yekha ndiye akhoza ndemanga ndi mafunso. Kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense akufuna amveke. Sindikukana iye. Iwe wekha, pamene mumamvetsera mwatcheru, sichoncho?
2. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi mnzake, mwina palibe simumachita izo ndemanga wamwano, ndipo musati mukunyoza iye. Yesetsani kumvetsa mfundo yake ya view. Ngati tikuganiza kuti ndi zolakwika, mokoma mtima komanso mokoma mtima ndimamuuza iye za izo. Yesani kupeza kukondera.
3. Deyl Karnegi, wotchuka American zamaganizo ananena kuti kuitana pa kukambirana munthu dzina. Choncho muli pa msinkhu chikumbumtima, kuzitcha izo kukudalirani ndi kulankhulana adzakhala bwino kwambiri. Munthu amamva kufunikira kwake. Carnegie anati: "Kumbukirani kuti kumveka anthu a dzina lake ndi phokoso zofunika ndi wokoma kwambiri ...". Musaiwale za izo.
4. Kukhala aulemu komanso osamala polankhula. Osati kufika kufunsa mafunso, ndipo sayenera kuika munthu pa vuto lina womangika ndi kuwatonza zolakwa zake, makamaka kutsogolo kwa alendo.
5. Chidwi ndi moyo ndi ntchito za mzake. Ngati munthu imakuuzani za vuto lanu, yesani kumuthandiza unobtrusive ndi mungafunike malangizo, koma siziyenera kukhala intrusive. Mu kufunika kudziwa pamene kusiya.

Alendo akhoza kukhala mabwenzi

Pali zinthu pamene mukufuna kulankhula kumaliza alendo. Mwafika ku phwando bungwe ndi mnzake. Inu basi anatsanulira timu yatsopano pa sukulu kapena kugwira ntchito. zoterezi achuluke. Choncho muyenera kukumbukira malamulo a kulankhulana ndi alendo:

1. Kukhala aulemu. Musalole ndemanga mwano za maonekedwe a munthu kapena chikhalidwe chake cha zovala.
2. Koma ndi mtima wonse kutamanda ndi Chalk wokongola, zodzikongoletsera kapena zovala. Munthu aliyense okonzeka ngati mungafufuze lingaliro lake la kalembedwe.
3. Kumwetulira, koma kachiwiri, modzipereka. Anatambasula kumwetulira amachita repulsively.
4. Yesani kupeza nkhani poyambira. N'zotheka kuti muli zinthu wamba kapena zosangalatsa. Ngati mumazindikira kuti muli ndi munthu palibe chimene chimagwirizanitsa inu, monga kulankhula naye za zochitika yoyamba dziko kapena mu dziko. N'zotheka yambitsani kukambirana. Musakhale chete ndipo dikirani kuti ena kupeza mutu wa nkhani. Kukhala wosangalala ndiponso ochezeka.
5. Usaope nthabwala. Ambiri mwina, gwero angayamikire mphamvu yanu nthabwala, ndipo kudzakuthandizani kuyandikira.
6. Ngati munthu wina akulankhula zoipa m'chinenero chanu ndi chinenero mukudziwa bwino, musazengereze kunena izo. Inu osati atsogolere ntchito mnzake, komanso kulemekeza iye.

Kumbukirani kuti malamulo pamwamba savuta kulankhula ndi anthu, koma iwo adzakuthandizani tsiku ndi tsiku pa kucheza ndi wina aliyense. Musaiwale kuziika mu ntchito!