Momwe mungamvere bwino mtsikana: malangizo ndi malangizo

Ndikufuna kuti ndikukumbatire msungwana kwa nthawi yoyamba, koma sindikudziwa bwanji? Kapena mwinamwake, mwakhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, koma simukudziwa momwe mungadziwire nthawi yomwe kuli kofunika kugwiritsa ntchito zidole zokongola? Tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza momwe tingagwirire bwino mtsikana amene mumayanjana nawo, pitirizani kapena mpaka pano.

Pezani mphindi yoyenera

Chikhalidwe choyamba ndi chofunikira kwambiri chogwirizana ndi kusankhidwa kwa mphindi yoyenera. Achinyamata ambiri amavutika kwambiri kudziwa kuti mtsikana ali wokonzeka kuchita izi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri pamakhala vuto: Mnyamatayo amaika dzanja lake m'chiuno, ndipo adamuitana ndikuthawa.

Kodi ndi nthawi yanji yoyenera kuitcha ilo molondola?

• Pamene mudakumana koyamba. Izi zikukumbatirana zidzatanthauzidwa monga "Ndine wokondwa kukuwonani" kapena "Ndakuphonyani inu". Koma musadalire kwambiri msungwana wofooka, kungokumbatirani mosavuta ngati chizindikiro chokomera.
• Mphindi. Msungwanayo akudandaula za chinachake kwa inu, kapena mosiyana iye anali ndi phwando losangalatsa - nthawi ya kuzunzika. Ndipo kachiwiri, kumbukirani kuti msungwanayo si mwamuna ndipo akukwapula kumbuyo ndi chiwerengero chonse ndi kulira kwa "okondwa, bwino" - osati lingaliro labwino.
• Polekanitsa. Kachiwiri chikondwerero chokoma, kunena kuti iwe udzaphonya mnzake.

Kodi mungamvetse bwanji kuti msungwana akufuna kuti am'kumbatike?

Ngati tikufuna kumvetsetsa bwino momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito msungwana, ndiye kuti tifunika kuzindikira chinthu chofunika kwambiri - chinenero cha thupi lake. Ndikofunika kuti mupeze zizindikiro zosayankhula (zomwe sizikutanthauza mawu) zomwe mtsikanayo akulota kale kuti mudzamugwira. Mndandanda wa zizindikirozo zili pansipa, koma kumbukirani kuti izi zimangosinthidwa, ndipo mtsikana aliyense ali:

1. Msungwanayo akukuyang'anani, akumwetulira ndikuyang'ana m'maso mwanu.
2. Akuwombera pamutu pake, amakhudza tsitsi lake, ngati kuti akuwonekera.
3. Mukakhala limodzi, amayesa kuchepetsa mtunda, ndipo mapazi ake ndi mchiuno zimayang'ana kwa inu.
4. Zimakukhudzani mukamakambirana. Mungathe kukhudza mwapang'onopang'ono kapena kumangokhalira kuseka.
5. Amachepetsa mtunda mwa kugwiritsa ntchito zopempha kuti ayese mafuta ake kapena mabala ake.

Kodi mungamvetse bwanji kuti msungwana sakufuna kuti agwiritsidwe?

Kuti mumvetse bwino momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito msungwana, muyenera kumvetsetsanso kuti msungwana sakukonzekera. Ndipo ngati mutakhala ndi ubale wautali mumatha kumvetsa bwino momwe msungwana amamvera, ndiye ndi anzanu atsopano pangakhale mavuto.

Kodi msungwanayo akuchoka ndipo sakuyang'anitsitsa? Kodi mubwerera mmbuyo mukadula mtunda? Milomo yake ndi yolimba, ndipo samaseka nthabwala zako? Zizindikiro zowopsya, koma sizikutanthauza kuti umanyansidwa ndi mtsikanayo. N'zotheka kuti amakhulupirira kuti mnyamata ndi mtsikana amakumbatira kokha pambuyo pa nthawi yaitali, ndipo si nthawi yokha.

Simungamukumbatire msungwana, sizolakwika, komabe zingathe kuwononga ubale pakati pa inu.

Malangizo kuti amveke

Wonjezerani nkhaniyi ndi mfundo zina zogwiritsira ntchito bwino msungwana:

• Kumbukirani njira za ukhondo. Pambuyo pa masewerawa, mumayenera kusamba, mwinamwake mungathe kumuopseza mayi "wokhumudwitsa".
• Musamhamangire mtsikana mwadzidzidzi. Kulandira ndi njira yosavuta.
• Yambani kukhudzana, mvetserani kwa mtsikanayo ndi zomwe akunena.
• Musapitirire motalika ngati simunali okondana.
• Osakokera manja anu mwamphamvu.

Atsikana ambiri safuna kukakamira. Ndikofunika kudziwa ngati msungwanayo ali wofatsa ndi inu, koma sakuchitapo kanthu.

Kwa maanja omwe ali kale pachibwenzi, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kumvetsa pamene mmodzi wa maphwando akufuna thandizo. Komabe, ngati muli ndi vuto ndi ichi, yesani njira yoyesera ndi yolakwika. Ngati msungwanayo akunena kuti sakufuna kubwereka, izi sizikutanthauza kuti wasiya kukonda kapena kukunyengerera. N'zosakayikitsa kuti amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti amve maganizo ake mkati mwake, ndipo mumasokoneza mchere wake. Koma iye adzakondwera kukugawana nawo nthawi zosangalatsa. Landirani zambiri - zimabweretsa pamodzi!