"Ndi bwino kukhala yekha kusiyana ndi aliyense" - lamulo limeneli la anzeru

Kuti "ndi bwino kukhala yekha kusiyana ndi aliyense" n'kofunika kwambiri m'dzikoli masiku ano. Chifukwa anthu ambiri amaopa kukhala ndekha, akazi pambuyo zaka makumi amakonda msanga "kudumpha" kukwatiwa, koma kukhala mu buthulo akale, munthu alibe zindikirani anthu amene "ali". Koma mfundo ndi kulankhula ichi chimabwera kutha mu kulephera. Iwo kalekale zatsimikiziridwa njira waluso kuti tikuyamba kuchita zinthu monga malo athu. Choncho ndi bwino yekha kusiyana ndi aliyense. Chifukwa kulowerera kampani zoipa, chifukwa cha kupewa kusungulumwa? Izi osachepera mopusa.

Amene anthu "amene ali"

makampani zoipa - amene mulibe kungobweretsa mu moyo wanu iliyonse yabwino, koma ndidzalizindikiritsa poipa. Poyamba, inu mukuganiza kuti inu nokha, ndi mabwenzi atsopano kuchepetsedwa wotopetsa chizolowezi. Kodi mukudziwa za zizolowezi zoipa za anzanu, koma musati ngofunika aliyense ichi. Ndipo Kenako mungayambe kulowerera okha iwo, kutsogolera miyoyo yawo kwa phompho. Ndi bwino kukhala yekha kusiyana ndi wina aliyense, chifukwa oipa mavuto, akuthawira kusungulumwa? Makamaka kuyambira si moyipa. Ena sangathe kudikira, pamene iwo akhoza kukhala payekha nokha, kumasuka, kumasuka. Choncho muyenera kuphunzira mmene angakhalire ndi mphindi iliyonse ya moyo wanu.

"Ndi bwino kukhala yekha kusiyana ndi aliyense" - amati bachelors kufunafuna mwachangu banja losangalala. Pofuna chikondi pa nthawi linasiiratu kupenya ena a kuipa ndi zolakwa za munthu. Apa inu muziwoneka ngati chinachake cholakwika, koma zilibe kanthu, koma sadzakhala wina. Ndiyeno yekha ndi nthawi akubwera kumvetsa kuti zingakhale bwino asanakumanepo ndi munthu.

Kodi zimenezi zingatheke bwanji?

Musamapewe kulankhulana, chomwe chiti m'mavuto inu. Anthu anzeru kudziwa kuti ndi bwino kukhala yekha kusiyana ndi aliyense. Musamapewe ku kusungulumwa, ndiye ubwino wake. Omar Khayyam ngakhale analemba ndakatulo wodzipereka kwa nkhaniyi. Pakuti njira imeneyi imapanga kulephera ngakhale wamkulu, amene ali kovuta kwambiri kwa kukonza.

Kumbukirani izi "mawu golide" ndi bwino kukhala yekha kusiyana ndi wina aliyense, ndipo zinthu mwanzeru, ndiye chimwemwe adzapeza inu!