Zokhumba. Ndi chiyani icho?

Kawirikawiri, kuziyeneleza kumvetsa kudzipereka, chidziwitso phenomenal mphamvu ena ndi zofooka zawo ndi kuthekera kusewera pa za ena. Pa nkhani imeneyi, munthu wofuna akhoza kunyamula mtengo zabwino, kufika anapereka tokha zolinga ndi negativity kugwirizana ndi kunyalanyaza maganizo ndi zolinga za ena.

Mfundo yankho ku funso lakuti: "Kudziwika - ndi" - tikhoza kunena motsimikiza kuti tikulimbana ndi maganizo wapamwamba awo "Ine". Ngati munthu ali ndi chikhulupiriro kuti mphamvu zake zochita zake ndi zomveka, ndi kuziyeneleza ndi kukhala abwino ndi za chikumbumtima yokongola. M'malo mwake, ngati zonse za mwano ndi kukwiya ndi zinthu zazing'ono kwambiri, pang'onopang'ono inasanduka cynic amene malingaliro ena ndi zofuna za ena - ndi chabe kuyerekeza ndi maganizo lake la dziko, kumene akukhala.

Komano aliyense chikhalidwe mayankho chake atafunsidwa kuti: "Kudziwika - kodi" Pakuti anthu ena ndi kusalumikizana za machitidwe awo, onse mu dongosolo achingelezi a makhalidwe abwino. Kwa ena - kukhoza kutenga udindo mu njira yotero kuti iyende pazipita mu dera lirilonse la ntchito, makamaka chuma. Njira imeneyi ndi zina zambiri mayiko North America.

Ine ndikudabwa zimene Europe ndi pafupifupi munthu ntchito mawu oti "ubwino", ndi iye zilibe kanthu. Inde, Africa amazindikira zokhumba zake ndi khalidwe abwino, koma onse inali kulemekeza kwa ufulu wa munthu ndi ufulu wa "anthu". Ngati kuphwanya anthu zokhudzana "wofuna" Munthu akhoza kukhala wokongola zovuta, ndipo ngakhale sakonda. Malinga ndi mfundo imeneyi, kuziyeneleza ayenera kuthandiza, osati kulepheretsa kukwaniritsa ubwino.

Ku Russia, yankho ku funso "zokhumba - ilo" bwino wothira. Pa dzanja limodzi, munthu wofuna ndi ulemu, makamaka ngati anakwanitsa akwanilitse zolinga zina mwa ntchito zawo. M'mawu ena, katswiri anayamikira kutchuka. Ubwino izi sikuthandiza. zokhumba Big mu chuma, ndale, malonda si bwino olandiridwa, koma chifukwa anadziwa yekha mu mawu oipa, mpaka chipongwe.

Komabe, kuziyeneleza, kufunika kwa amene sakhoza titsimikize kotheratu ku mfundo za sayansi view, angathe kuonedwa monga muyezo thanzi maganizo. Zikuonekeratu kuti anthu a Kumadzulo, kumene zinthu zonse zofunikira chiyambi cha munthu, kudzidalira ndi chikhumbo chofuna kupeza chifukwa yeniyeni akulandiridwa ndi kuwalimbikitsa. Mu Russian, ndi zinthu lonse pambuyo Soviet, zinthu yosiyana. anthu opambana - nthawi kaduka, ngati chidani. Zambiri dziko lathu sindimakonda. Apa zilibe kanthu kaya kuziyeneleza ndi, icho chiri. Koma anayeza mtengo ndi umunthu yake amadzinenera kukula. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti zolinga ndi mumangire, chabe chifukwa ena simukufuna winawake kuima pa gululo. Ndiye kuziyeneleza wathanzi limangolembedwa lidzasinthidwa kukhala patokha ndi mphwayi chikhalidwe.