Anthu daffodils: kusiyanitsa pakati, pa maziko? Buku lina - matenda kapena chifukwa cha maphunziro?

Agiriki, pali pang'ono narcissistic nthano ya mwana wa mtsinje mulungu Narcissus, amene anayesera mwakukhoza kwake kukana maganizo amenewo ndi abwino, monga chikondi. Izi anazindikira ndi mulungu wa chikondi ndipo anaganiza amulanga. Tsiku lina Narcissus anaona chinyezimiro wake mu mtsinje, ndipo kwenikweni anagwa mu chikondi, chifukwa cha ichi, iye sanapite kwa mphindi sakanatha kusiya kusinkhasinkha ake, ndipo kenako anafa imfa choopsa cha njala.

Kumene nkhaniyi kokha nthano, koma, mwatsoka, ndi zambiri anthu awa amene safuna kulandira ena zomwe iwo ali nazo pa dziko ano. Kwa iwo, pali kudzipereka kwawo, "Ine", limene liri palibe basi ambike. A vuto ofanana kwa munthu wamakono ndi ponseponse, pamene mu Psychiatric mtima ndi nyumba yosungiramo katundu madokotala khalidwe bwinobwino amati ndi matenda a "zilakolako narcissistic." Tiyeni tikambirane zimene ndi gwero la Buku lina, komanso kuyankha ena mwa mafunso ofunika kwambiri okhudza zopatuka izi.

1. Kodi Buku lina ndi matenda?
2. Kaya munthu ndi narcissist chifukwa cha maphunziro?
3. Ena odwala ndi matenda a "Buku lina" chithandizo atadwala azamisala oyenerera?

Munthu ndi zizolowezi narcissistic

Choyamba, timapereka inu chimatanthauza kwambiri mfundo "Buku lina." Anthu, daffodils, monga ulamuliro, ndi incorrigible odzikonda, narcissistic ndi fixated okha okha ndi mavuto awo. Ena zambiri iwo amanyalanyaza ndipo amafuna kuti mawonetseredwe awo mpaka kalekale kusirira moyo. Mandative kamvekedwe ndi mutu zokhazokha kwa iwo chizindikiro chachikulu, ngakhale zambiri zoona alidi wosasangalala. Azidzidalira ndi hypertrophied kudzidalira. Ndipotu Ndipotu aliyense wa ife wakhala duwa, kotero kokha munthu akhoza MOKHOZA mmene kutembenukira izo ndi, monga munthu akadali salisiyanitsa yekha kwa Mulungu. Komanso, anthu daffodils sangakhoze kuima kutsutsa, pokhala iwo eni wokha ali wokonzeka kufotokoza kusakhutira awo ndi koloko.

Buku lina monga matenda

Anthu amakonda narcissistic kwenikweni onyamula matenda amaganizo kuti kumasintha umunthu wawo. Anthuwa mowirikiza kuyesetsa abwino kukonza zolakwa za thupi lake mwa njira zosiyanasiyana. Choncho, chifukwa, angakhale "eni" a anorexia, maganizo ndiponso kusiya. Anthu daffodils ndi chimodzi mbali yapadera - kutsogolo ubongo gyrus awo akugwira ntchito kwambiri, akhoza kuyang'ana pa khalidwe lawo pa mbali, ndipo mwachikulu kuunikira ena. Anthu amenewa sangathe mwabwinobwino kuwunika khalidwe lawo, choncho amakhulupirira kuti zinthu zosiyanasiyana zachilendo.

Zizindikiro za Buku lina

Pofuna kuthandiza munthu olumala maganizo, ndi woyamba n'kofunika kupenda zizindikiro za Buku lina. Za iwo tidzakambirana zina.

Munthu amamva kanthu ndi achabechabe

Anthu ambiri kufotokoza boma daffodil-monga lalikulu wakuda dzenje mkati kuti nthawi zonse amafuna kudzazidwa. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, zikuoneka kuti pa nthawi ina, iwo angayambe kumwa mowa ndi mankhwala. Chinthu chokha chimene angathe kwenikweni - ndi kumverera kwa chigonjetso kwenikweni. Kuti amve kukoma cha chigonjetso munthu olumala ndi wokonzeka zonse, ngakhale zochita zambiri zamphamvu.

Kuyesa ena ndipo anawayerekezera ndi

Man daffodil (mu uthunthu) ntchito kuunikira anthu ena ndi kufanizira iwo ndi kuvomerezedwa, zilibe kanthu, ziyenera izi ikukhudzana kuti maonekedwe kapena khalidwe. Ngati munthu ndi mkhutu amamvera ena kuzindikira ndi chikondi kulankhula, iyamba kugwera mu maganizo, tingayambe mankhwala chilakolako ndi mowa.

mbali ziwiri za ndalama

Munthu amene ali ndi khalidwe narcissistic amakhala mu maiko angapo nthawi imodzi. Pa dzanja limodzi, ndi uchitsiru wokongola, okongola ndi wapadera, ndi pa zina - ndi zosamveka ndi osakondwa. Monga ulamuliro, dziko loyamba chimapambana pa nthawi ya kuzizwa chilengedwe komanso chiwonetsero chachikulu cha chikondi, ndipo chachiwiri - pa nthawi ya kukana ndi mnyozo. Ndipotu aliyense wa ife angathe kukumbukira kuli akulimba mtima, koma pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa daffodil ndi munthu wabwinobwino. Choyamba ndi kuti poyamba si kusiyana kumodzi pakati pa "zabwino" ndipo zina "zoipa", zonse kapena "zoopsa" kapena "wamkulu kufikira anakomoka."

Atalingaliranso zizindikiro, zikhoza Ndizachidziwikire kuti Buku lina - matenda amene angathe kwenikweni kungasokoneze kupititsa patsogolo chitukuko anthu, choncho bwenzi mwamtendere ndi kumva kuti ndinedi payekha.

Buku lina ndi maphunziro

Ife tonse tikudziwa kuti umunthu wa mwanayo aumbike mwa maphunziro a makolo. zamaganizo kwambiri oyenerera nthawi yoyamba zingadziŵike ndi munthu wamkulu monga liukitsidwa ndi mmene tcheru ngati mwana. Buku lina ndi chikondi cha makolo n'zogwirizana.

Choyamba, mtima wa bambo ndi mayi kwa mwana ungayende galimoto, zoyambitsa matenda, ndipo kachiwiri, nthawi zina chifukwa cha polakwika mawu zowonetseredwa ndi mwana umayamba njira ina kuona n'kumamva dziko. Man-Narcisse amakonda kuunikira ndi kuziyerekeza anthu ena, ndipo izi mwachindunji ndi maphunziro a makolo. Koma iwo anayesa kukumbutsa mwana kuti anzakewo kusukulu ndi bwino kuwerenga, ndi anyamata ku masewero olimbitsa chisankho chothamanga. Kuti amakonda zabwino, ife tinkaganiza kuti chifukwa cha mawu a ana awo adzakhala zambiri kudzidalira ndi bwino ndipo wakwanitsa zotsatira zosiyana. Mungafunse kuti: "Chifukwa chiyani?" Yankho lake ndi losavuta. Ndipotu vuto lagona pa choona kuti bambo ake ndi mayi sanapereke mwana wake mwayi adzitengere yekha ngati iye sanali kupatsidwa mwayi kuphunzira makhalidwe ndi luso lawo. Tsopano mwanayo akapanda wa munthu "Ine" adzakhala moyo wanga wonse kuyang'ana anthu ena fanizirani kupambana kwawo ndi bwino ambiri ndipo chifukwa makolo nthawi anamukumbutsa kuti m'dziko pali anthu abwino, mwayi ndi bwino osati kulowera kwake.

Mmene zambiri munthu zokumana-daffodil

Pali mitundu ingapo ya mmene amakhala ndi munthu Narcisse tsiku lililonse:

1. The manyazi. gulu la anthu nthawi manyazi, amene amagwiritsa amabisa mkati yokha. Chifukwa kumverera lowopsya la wachabechabe, wosafunika, daffodils kwambiri akhoza kugwa osati maganizo, komanso kumva ndi lingo la manyazi chifukwa cha iye yekha, kotero kuti ambiri a iwo fambani kwa dokotala ndi kovuta, chifukwa cha udindo Narcissus adzakhala anakumana ndi wake manyazi.
2. Kupalamula. Mkazi ngati Narcissus wamwamuna - amadziona mlandu moyo wake wonse kwa makolo ake, chifukwa iwo sanathe kuchita zomwe awo, kuwonjezera, ngati chandamale si anafika kunaganiziridwa pozungulira vinyo analanda Narcissus kwathunthu. kawirikawiri, pokhapokha pamene munthu ali kwenikweni wotopa wodzilamulira kunenera golideyo kwa anazimitsa kuchokera chinyezimiro munthu pa galasi ena.
3. Nkhawa. zomverera ofanana ayende munthu Narcissus pafupifupi nthawi zonse, mwachindunji zokhudzana ndi chakuti iye amafuna wolephera kapena zochitika zimene si solvable iye. Mantha kutipunthwitsa pa njira yanu ya moyo bandwagon wina kukakamiza Narcissus kukhala mu mkhalidwe nkhawa lopitirira.

Kuthandiza munthu ndi matenda narcissistic

Ngati inu nokha ndi aya wokondedwa wanu wa Buku lina, inu kwenikweni kumuthandiza. kuchita zimenezi Cholinga ndi kulimbikitsa anthu kuti kupeza munthu awo "Ine", ankadutsa mavuto, manyazi ndi kumverera zonse wolakwa. madokotala onse amakhulupirira kuti nthawi wotereyo ndidzadzitamandira ubwenzi yekha yaitali ndi wokondedwa. Akukhulupirira kuti ntchito kuli kovuta, chifukwa mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito thandizo kukokera panja munthu maganizo uchidakwa, akhoza asalandidwe maganizo ndi manyazi, kuda nkhawa ndi kupalamula, koma kuti kugwa m'chikondi - ndi zenizeni ntchito. Choncho, achire komanso kumasula munthu ku chilango cha Buku lina zimatengera iye yekha. Chinthu chachikulu - kumbukirani kuti duwa munthu ayenera kudutsa magawo onse a mankhwala: ochokera "zoopsa" kuti "zabwino."

Kukhala nthawi zonse wathanzi ndi maphunziro kusamala ana awo!