Chinsinsi cha kupambana kapena kusintha khalidwe lanu

"Muyenera kusintha kwa makhalidwe ndi zonse ntchito" - zambiri izo akulangizidwa bwino anthu ena akaona mnzake wakale zosakwanitsika ndi vuto lawo pa ntchito kapena maganizo wekha kwa anthu ena.

Ena kuganizira mmene kusintha khalidwe lanu kuti kuthetsa mavuto alipo ndi kupewa mikangano zotheka m'tsogolo. Kawirikawiri, izi zimachitika mu okwatirana, amene amalemekeza banja.

Kuntchito, kunyumba ndi abwenzi, anthu nthawi zonse amakumana kukambirana za munthuyo. Akuti ndi khalidwe anthu wothandiza moyo ndi ntchito, ndi njira zina mozungulira.

Ndi makondawa funso mmene kusintha chikhalidwe - amakhala pafupifupi mwalawapangodya panjira chimwemwe ndi kupambana pa ntchito.

Ngati muli ndi funso, tiyenera kukhala ndi maganizo ake. Popeza kuti nkhani imeneyi si maphunziro, poganizira chiphunzitso chakuti psyche ndi khalidwe zamaganizo munthu sadzakhala. Ndi kokha kuthana ndi zinthu chenicheni cha kusintha khalidwe lanu ndi chomwe chimatanthauza, zoona.

Kotero ...

Ndiko kulondola, pamaso kanthu anthu kuyesera bwino mupereke zotsatira, zomwe akufuna kukwaniritsa kapena kupeza.

Ngati anthu akufuna kusintha makhalidwe, iwonso Tipindulanji chinachake kapena chinachake chifukwa cha kusintha.

Pali funso wololera: ndendende kukwaniritsa kapena ndi chifukwa kusintha khalidwe?

• Taonani yankho ku mbali yoyamba ya "zifukwa" m'magazini mwa zolinga za khalidwe la munthu.

Mukhoza kukhala ndi chizindikiro kapena kupyoza, mungathe kusintha mtundu kapena kalembedwe zovala. Anthu akhoza kumachita zimenezo. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, anthu kusintha maganizo awo ena ndi kusintha maganizo awo. Iwo muwone ku mabwalo ochezera kapena "chipani", imene poyamba sanali kuwafika. Fikani amalimbikitsa kudzakhala ndi zambiri.

Kusintha maonekedwe ake, anthu kupeza ngongole ya kukhulupirira ena.

M'mawu ena, anthu ndi kuyamba kuchita chinachake ndi iwo kuti imakhoza chinthu chatsopano, chinachake iwo satero. Alikufuna ena phindu, osati nkhaniyo.

bwanji kuti anthu amakonda kuyamikilidwa ndi akhale, ndikufuna akhale olemera m'zonse.

Pofuna kukwaniritsa ubwino anthu atsopano ndi kuganizira mmene kusintha khalidwe lanu.

• Yankho la funso kuti mbali yachiwiri ya "zifukwa" m'magazini mwa chitsanzo pa khalidwe la munthu.

Pofuna kukwaniritsa cholinga anakhumba ayenera kuchita zonse zimene ayenera kuchita ndipo palibe zochepa. Munthu akhoza kuchita kukwaniritsa cholinga pafupifupi onse, ngati cholinga ndi njira zimagwirizana ndendende ndi khalidwe lake.

Ngati munthu anathamangitsa zovala kapena khamu chidwi, cholinga chake wolakalakika - onyenga. Pankhaniyi, munthu onse chiyani, silingayende bwino ndipo adzakupatsani zotsatira osachepera.

Malaise amapezeka munthu pamene iye sanachite ntchito zawo, osati pa malo "zawo" ndi kuyesa kupeza kuti decoy lapansi.

Munthu kufuna kuonetsetsa kuti si chosowa cha chikhalidwe chake titadziwa, sikuti iye Mokhumbira ndi mavuto. Decoy sangafikire.

chikhalidwe cha anthu alibe kudziwa kupambana mu moyo. Inu mukhoza kukhala bwino ndi lachimwemwe chikhalidwe chilichonse. Chinthu chachikulu kuti ndi kofunika kuti - izo zikugwira "awo" malonda. M'pofunikanso kupeza ndi kulankhula ndi anthu amene amatenga munthu monga ali.

Mkota Mwachitsanzo:

Penguin sadzasintha makhalidwe ake chifukwa cha zosamukira "kwamakono ndi ozizira" Islands Canary, kumene adzafa popanda chisanu ndi anyani ena.

Aliyense ayenera kukhala mu malo a mtundu wawo komanso wosangalala.

Kubweretsa magawo awiri a kuyankha funso "kulolera" ife kupeza:

1. Anthu amaganiza kusintha khalidwe zimene anayenera kupeza phindu.
2. Pezani chinthu china ndi njira yosavuta, ngati muli chilengedwe okha ndi kupita cholinga "mmene".

Kodi n'zotheka kusintha khalidwe kusintha khalidwe la moyo?

Pali losavuta Yankho: koma chifukwa? Kusintha khalidwe la moyo zokwanira kuchotsa mipherezero onyenga, kutengera anthu ena ndi kupeza njira zawo za chitukuko.