Dziwani njira zosankhulirana zoyankhulirana

Njira zosalankhulirana zimatipatsa zambiri zambiri kuposa kulankhula. Ndi kudzera m'chinenero cha thupi timasonyeza mmene timamvera. Anthu omwe adziŵa izi angathe kuzindikira chinyengo. Koma ena amatha kuyendetsa manja awo ambiri ndikunyenga ngakhale bodza lamatsenga. Ngakhale anthu oterewa ndi ochepa kwambiri.

Njira zowankhulirana ndi zosavuta kumva

Munthu wamakono amalankhula mawu pafupifupi 30,000 tsiku lililonse. Kulankhula ndi njira yolankhulirana. Pali mitundu yambiri ya ntchito yolankhula : kulankhula, kumvetsera / kumvetsera, kulemba ndi kuwerenga. Mitundu ya kulankhulana popanda mawu - izi ndi manja, maimidwe, maonekedwe, nkhope, malingaliro, malo mlengalenga, ndi zina zotero.

Kinesthetics imaphatikizapo kutchuka, nkhope ndi manja. Amalingalira mbali ya kunja ya mawonetseredwe a kumverera ndi kumverera. Kusuntha kwa mutu ndi manja ndi njira yoyamba yolankhulirana. Masiku ano , chinenero chamanja chimaphunziridwa bwino, palinso mabuku "kuwerenga" tanthawuzo lenileni la mawu a munthu malingana ndi kayendetsedwe kake kosavomerezeka. Anthu amodzi amagwiritsa ntchito gesticulation mosiyana. Kotero, Finns imagwiritsa ntchito njira yolankhulirana pa ola limodzi, Italiya nthawi 80, ndi Mexico 180.

Mimicry, ndiko kuti, kusuntha kwa minofu ya nkhope, ndicho chisonyezero chachikulu chakumverera. Popanda chigawo ichi, ndiko kuti, pakuyankhula, pamene sitikuwona nkhope ya munthu, pafupi 10-15% yazomwe zimatayika. Kusuntha konse kwa minofu m'maganizo kumagwirizana. Mfundo yaikulu yophunzitsira ili pamilomo ndi nsidze.

Kuyanjana kwa maso ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ngati simukuyang'ana nthawi yaying'ono, izi zikhoza kutanthauza kuti akukunama. Koma kuti muzindikire moyenera bodza, ndikofunika kulingalira njira zina zosalankhulirana . Lingaliro lingakhale bizinesi (kuganizira pamphumi pa interlocutor), chikhalidwe (katatu pakati pa pakamwa ndi maso), wapamtima (pachifuwa).

Pantomimika ikuphatikizapo njira zosalankhulirana monga maonekedwe, malo, maimidwe ndi zamagetsi. Mchitidwewu umasiyana mosiyanasiyana, mphamvu ndi matalikidwe. Chizindikiro ichi chikhoza kuweruzidwa zonse zokhudza thanzi, komanso za chikhalidwe, maganizo ndi zaka za munthu. Kupweteka kosauka kuli kosauka, kokondweretsa - kuwala, kudzikuza. Zindikirani kuti anthu omwe amachira manja awo amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo nthawi yochepa kwambiri.

Pali pafupi zikwi chikwi zolimba, zomwe zimasonyeza momwe munthu amadziwira yekha momwe alili ndi ena. Zinthu zosasamala zimakhala ndi anthu omwe apindula kwambiri. Pulogalamuyi imatha kunena za kutseguka kapena kutsekedwa.

Mwa mawu, kuphunzira njira zosalankhulirana, simungathe kumvetsa zomwe woyimilira akufuna. Nthawi zambiri simungathe kukhumudwa, phunzirani nthawi zambiri kuti mumvetse mabodza komanso kusaona mtima. Maluso awa adzakhala othandiza pazochitika zilizonse: pikambirana ndi m'moyo waumwini. Nthawi zambiri timafunika kupanga zisankho zokhudzana ndi momwe tingapitirizire kusunga maubwenzi, momwe tingayankhire zokambirana, ndi zina. Kudziwa zofunikira kukuthandizani kupeza mayankho a mafunso anu ambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuchita ndi kugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso.