"Ine ndimadana ndi anthu!" Ke kapena psychopathology?

Ife tatopa, sakumvetsa, winawake kapena tsogolo, ndipo tsopano basi kugona tulo mu ima pamzere sitolo, bwana anapereka yowonjezera. kangati, Pa kamphindi ndi sacramental "ine ndimadana ndi anthu" amapezeka mutu wathu? Ndithudi, izi ndi papita ndi kutengeka. Tinganene, ataima pa phazi cholakwika, tikhoza anakwiyira dziko lonse. Koma kodi n'kofunikira kutaya chingwe kapena yaing'ono zidule zauve kukhala bwino, ndipo tinatsegula bwino chikhalidwe kwambiri. Komabe, nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Sichangozi kuti mawu ambiri "ine ndimadana ndi anthu, koma nyama chikondi" amapereka moyo. Kodi n'chiyani chimachititsa misanthropy zimenezi? Amakhulupirira kapena zochitika kokha? Kuti, monga iwo amachitcha anthu amene amadana ndi anthu, monga likumasuliridwa kuti "misanthropes". Misanthropy. Koma kodi Ndipotu zimenezi zikutanthauza chiyani? Maonekedwe muyeso wa psychopathy kuti kuwononga zamoyo zonse? Kapena kutaya mtima ndi kugwetsedwa mphwayi pofunafuna chinenero chimodzi ndi ena?

Zidalira pa malo ochezera a munthu, kwa mfundo koyamba. Ngati chifukwa chachikulu kukana a mtundu wa mtundu wawo anali kunyoza, kunyozedwa, manyazi, titha kuganiza kuti munthu wa mawu akuti "chidani anthu" ndi zolakwika kwambiri. Osati kanthu chifukwa cha Victimology ndi profilers, kapena akatswiri mu psychopathology, amakhulupirira kuti anthu a chiwawa ndiponso kukana kukhala zigawenga tsogolo ndi vandals. Iwo kubwezera pa anthu onse, ndi anthu mwachindunji zaululu anakumana ana kapena unyamata. Inde, zinthu zoopsa si nthawi zonse kuwafika. Nthawi zambiri mawu "ine ndimadana ndi anthu" - izo zangokhala aima, chilakolako kukopa tcheru. Kapena mawu osonyeza wotopa kwambiri.

Tonsefe tili ndi milingo yosiyanasiyana ya anatengera chikhalidwe, zosowa zosiyana ndi mwayi. Aliyense kumverera bwino mu seclusion, mu ntchito yonse yolenga, osati mawu "ine ndimadana ndi anthu" kumatanthauza kudzipereka kwenikweni kuvulaza kapena kuwononga mtundu wawo. Kwambiri nthawi zambiri chabe kusinjirira, amene Komabe, zikusonyeza makhalidwe a munthu. Ngati moyo umodzi palibe yekha, zina zovuta Finyani kunja mawu owonjezera. Ndipo si chifukwa cha manyazi - amangoika saona kufunika kulongolola ndi kuwombola zokumana zosafunika. Kodi ngati munthu ali introvert (mtima wodzikonda) kapena extrovert (zinayang'ana zina), zimatengera kutali osati pa maphunziro. Choyamba, zinthu izi ndi chifukwa munthu mtundu wa mantha dongosolo, makhalidwe a malemeredwe ndi chopinga njira, liwiro ndi mphamvu ya zochita maganizo. Ndipo izo mitundu chabe mwakale.

Koma munthu amene amadana ndi anthu ena mwakuti izo zimapangitsa izo zovuta m'moyo ayenera kuthandizidwa. Ndi chinthu chimodzi - monga kupewa kulankhulana zosafunika, ndi zina - moyo mwa mavuto zonse ndi nkhondo iyemwini ndi ena. Munthu wotere adzakhala kuthandiza azamisala ndi zamaganizo. Nthawi zambiri mawu "ine ndimadana ndi anthu" Amabisa tanthauzo lakuya: "Anthu sindikumvetsa ine, musatenge, kutsutsa".

Aliyense wa ife ali mchikakamizo cha ena, kapena zochepa kwambiri pa iye poyankha. Ndipo kokha lalikulu mavuto maganizo mwina vutoli udali ena kuti amakhala oopsa kwa munthu kapena achibale ake. Mulimonsemo, ndi machenjezo - kufuna dissociate yokha, kupuma, kupewa zonse mitundu ya kulankhulana - kulandira chithandizo. Nthawi zambiri izi ndi zizindikiro poyamba maganizo, zomwe angachite ndi mchirikizo wa okondedwa ndi ngati inu mukufuna munthu.