Kodi kugonana kumalota chiyani?

Bukhuli ndilopereka kumasulira maloto. Makamaka, zidzatengedwa ngati maloto apamtima - kugonana - ndi kutanthauzira kwake. Kambiranani mwatsatanetsatane nkhaniyi. Mfundo ndi yakuti, kutanthauzira kwathunthu ndi kolondola kwa maloto onse, mfundo ndizosafunikira kwenikweni. Ngati mupereka yankho losavomerezeka, ndiye, molingana ndi General Dream Book, kuti mukhale ndi chikondi mu maloto - chabwino, ngati mutakhala ndi zosangalatsa nthawi yomweyo. Tsono, muzowona mudzasangalala ndi maubwenzi ndi mnzanu.

Ikunenanso kuti ngati kugonana kunali pakati pa anthu ena, ndipo munawona kuchokera kunja, maloto oterewa amatsimikizira kuti simungathe kukondweretsa banja. Nchifukwa chiyani mumalota zogonana, osabweretsa chisangalalo, osasangalala? Malinga ndi kutanthauzira kwa Common Dream Book, chenjezo lina limatumizidwa kuchokera pamwamba. Muli bwino kusiya maganizo ena, chifukwa izi zimapangitsa kuti mukhale opanda ulemu. Mudzatsutsidwa ndi anthu ozungulira inu. Ndi malingaliro otani, wolota, monga lamulo, guesses mwiniwake.

Chinthu chotsatirachi ndi mwachidule pomasulira chizindikiro mu funso. Ili ndi bukhu la loto la Slavonic. Pa funso lakuti "kugonana kumalota bwanji" kumapatsidwa yankho lotsatirali: "Ngati wolota nthawi yomweyo akakhala ndi chisangalalo, ndiye adzalira komanso kudandaula." Zimatuluka, monga momwe zinaliri, kutsutsana ndi gwero lapitalo. Izi ndi chifukwa chake nthawi zonse timawerenga mabuku angapo otota. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ndibwino kuti mumvetsere zomwe mukuwerenga, yesetsani kukumbukira zonse zomwe mumalota, kuyeretsani kumasulira ndi moyo wanu weniweni.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli okwatira kapena okwatira, ndipo mukupatsidwa kutanthauzira koteroko monga banja loyambirira, kapena inu mwachenjezedwa za kutha kwa umaliseche, n'zosavuta kulingalira kuti kuweruza kwanu sikuli koyenera. Koma ngati gweroli likunena kuti mwina banja lingagwirizane kapena kukhala ndi mimba, ndiye kuti anthu a m'banja ali ndi chinachake choti aganizire. Koma tiyeni tibwerere ku bukhu la loto la Slavonic. Ikunenanso kuti ngati mulota chikondi chosweka ndi kugonana pa nthawi yomweyo, mumoyo weniweni, mosiyana, mudzasangalala, kulandira uthenga wabwino.

Nchifukwa chiani maloto a kugonana m'maganizo a ophatikiza a Maya dreambook? Palinso mfundo ziwiri pano, imodzi mwa izo ndi zabwino, ndi inayo siili. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi zabwino. Maloto omwe mumagonana nawo ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, akukulonjezani tsiku lachikondi pamoyo weniweni . Kwa chochitika choterocho chiyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale. Musamveke ndi kuvala zodzikongoletsera mpaka msonkhano womwe ukufunidwa.

Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tipitilire ku zolakwika za kutanthauzira kwa chizindikiro. Kugonana m'maloto ndi munthu yemwe mumamudziwa m'moyo weniweni akhoza kumuchenjeza za kuthekera kwa matenda opatsirana pogonana. Maloto a Maya ndi abwino chifukwa nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mayankho othandiza. Pankhaniyi, kuti muteteze vutoli, muyenera kuthira mafuta anu a chimanga musanagone. Zidzakhala zofunikira kugona kwathunthu wamaliseche.

Yankho lowonjezera ku funso lakuti "kugonana kumalota" lingapezeke kubuku la Noble dream la Grishina. Monga tafotokozera kumayambiriro kwa bukuli, mfundo ndi zofunika kuti tanthauzo la maloto ndi lolondola. Ngati mtsikana wamng'ono alota kugonana ndi munthu wokhwima, ndiye kuti ali ndi moyo weniweni akhoza kukukhumudwitsidwa mu chikondi. Maloto omwewo akuyimira mkazi wokhwima akuyandikira gulu labwino. M'mbali zonse za moyo wake, padzakhala kusintha kwabwinoko.

Nthawi zina maloto angawoneke oipa kuchokera pamalingaliro a makhalidwe abwino, koma kutanthauzira kwake, mmalo mwake, kudzakondweretsa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mkazi kapena mtsikana (yemwe ali namwali) akugwiriridwa mu loto ndi chizindikiro chabwino. Chifukwa chake, cholinga chake chidzaperekedwa. Cotygee ndi abambo anu akulota - mumakonda chitukuko ndipo tidzakhala osankhidwa ake, ndipo ngati ndi mchimwene wanu, ndiye achibale angathandize.

Amuna sakuiwala pano ngakhale. Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota kugonana ndi "agulugufe usiku" (hule)? Kuti akhale wosangalala. Poyambirira, mu moyo padzakhala kusintha koonekeratu, koma ndiye wolota akhoza kudwala. Ndi mkazi wosadziwika m'maloto, kukonda kuchita - zenizeni zinthu zidzasintha bwino. Ngakhale kugonana ndi nyama kukulota, kwenikweni, chuma chiyenera kugwera pa iwe.

Ndipo ife tikukhumba aliyense thanzi ndi zosangalatsa maloto!