Kodi kusiyanitsa asapita m'banja?

Malinga zamaganizo kwambiri, ukwati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi zina wayamba mavuto. Mu ena zingachitike zaka 3, ena zaka 10. Kumbukirani kuti mgwirizano uliwonse, makamaka banja, muyenera zodziwitsa "kulunzanitsa jekeseni." Kodi kusiyanitsa ukwati ndi kusunga chikondi kwa zaka zambiri, mudzaphunzira ndi kuwerenga nkhaniyi.

Konzani mlungu chikondi - kupita kwina

Yabwino - kupita yekha ku mzinda wina kapena dziko. Ngati muli ana aang'ono, kusiya agogo awo. Ndipo inu mukhoza kukhala mu hotelo ndi mlungu chikondi, kusangalala limodzi. Kusintha zokongola ndithu kupindula kumverera kwanu, ichi lalifupi "ulendo" adzakhala kusintha ubale, kuwapanga iwo kukuwalira cholimba.

Nthawi zambiri Timasangalalanso zodabwitsa

Mabanja ambiri amachita chidwi ndi funso momwe kusiyanitsa asapita pambuyo khumi, zaka makumi awiri a ukwati pamene mukudziwa zonse za munthuyo? lophweka - azipereka theka yanu yachiwiri ya zinthu zake zochepa zosangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo, kulemba chikondi zolemba ndi kuziika mu malo mosayembekezeka (a shuga mbale, mayikirowevu, firiji itd). Sikuti imene odes ndi prose, kusangalatsa mkazi (gu), vuto ndi zotsatirazi: kusonyeza chisamaliro chanu, chikondi ndi mphamvu ya ubwenzi mabanja ndi achibale a munthu.

The zolemba mukhoza kulemba momwe inu ndamusowa (ake), monga wokondedwa ndipo sanafune adzautaya. Tangoganizani mnzanuyo akutsegula shuga mbale naona kachidutswa kakang'ono ka pepala, pamene mawu ochepa zabwino zinalembedwa. ... M'malo pepala, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito khadi lomwe kale lemba kake. Ndinadabwa mu mawonekedwe a chikondi mapositi kadi bwino kuika pansi pilo kapena m'buku (kope, chikwama). Mphatso ophiphiritsa adzakhala ndi amtengo wapatali kwambiri ndipo n'zofunika.

Inu mukadali chidwi funso momwe kusiyanitsa ubale, ndiye tidzapitiriza. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, anthu ambiri mabanja ali pamodzi kukamba nthawi yochepa kwambiri. Kupanga izo ulamuliro: kukhala ndi chidwi theka lake yachiwiri tsiku anapita - chimene iye anali kuchita. misonkhano imeneyi ku khitchini kumwa tiyi osati kubweretsa anthu pamodzi, komanso kuti atsitsimuke mu kukumbukira mphindi wokongola limodzi.

Amuna ngati kukhudzana chogwirika

akazi ambiri akudandaula kuti mwamuna wake anataya chidwi mu chirichonse chimene chimachitika mu banja, ndipo kuvutika kwa izo, osati kudziwa momwe kumbuyo "kuunika moto" mu mtima wa munthu wokondedwa, momwe n'zabwino ubwenzi ndi mwamuna wake. Choyamba, m'pofunika kuchita osati kulankhulana mawu, komanso chogwirika - zambiri kukhudza munthu kupereka zofunika ulemu m'zinthu: stroking mutu, agwila dzanja la mtsikanayu, kukumbatirana. Njirazi ndikupatseni inu kumvetsa kuti muyenera izo, ndipo inu mukumverera kuti iye wachifundo kwambiri ndi maganizo odzipereka.

Musaiwale kuti aziona maonekedwe awo

Mu magawo oyambirira a maubwenzi anthu amayamba kuyang'ana "mkulu", koma patatha zaka zochepa kukhala limodzi banjali "Kutha" tokha, athe kutsatira maonekedwe - makamaka kwa amayi. Ngakhale amuna monogamous kulabadira madona wokongola komanso anakonzekeretsa, ngati mkazi safuna kutaya pamaso chidwi mwamuna wake kugonana, ndiye iwo basi ayenera kuti thupi lanu mu mawonekedwe abwino, nthawi kukaona salons kukongola ndi boutiques ndi zovala zamakono. Kugula achigololo kabudula ndi raduyte mwamuna wake.

Kuyesera kugonana

Ngati ndinu nkhawa momwe kusiyanitsa asapita m'banja, ndiye ndimaganiza za kugonana miyoyo yawo, zomwe patapita nthawi yaitali ndithu anataya changu ndi chilakolako. phunziro anapeza kuti pafupifupi 70% ya mabanja kukhalira limodzi kwa zaka zoposa zitatu, salinso akukumana ndi masautso ndi kutengeka kwa wapamtima wanu. Anthu ambiri amaganiza za Zopatsa kugonana ndi okondedwa lachilendo.

Zachitikiranji zimenezi? Mwina chifukwa cha chongosangalatsa lapansi. Azitulutsa ndi moyo wolimba ndi kupuma mumtima chatsopano chabe izo. Yesetsani chikondi, osati bedi. Kusintha maganizo anu - ngati si zokwanira kapena adziwe zambiri mu phunziro ili, ndiye yang'anani mafilimu pamodzi kumbali. Kuyesera mu bedi, udindo-masewera, musazengereze kusonyeza maganizo ndi zofuna zawo.

Zosiyanasiyana pa ubwenzi - ndi moyenera ndipo chikole wachimwemwe banja. Musalole kuti ubwenzi wanu ku muyeso, kusunga ubwenzi ndi chikondi, ndiye maonekedwe cipo anadza kamala.