Kugonana kwathunthu.

Ndani sakufuna kugonana kwathunthu masiku ano, pamodzi ndi chuma chambiri? Zikuwoneka kuti ndife ochepa chabe omwe angayesere kuyankha funsoli molakwika. Ndipotu, munthu aliyense wokhwima maganizo masiku ano amavomereza kuti kugonana nthawi zonse ndi koyamba komanso makamaka thanzi. Thanzi labwino ndi labwino. M'nkhaniyi, sitidzakhala ndi mawu ochiritsira (tiyeni tiwerenge nkhaniyi), koma tiganizire momwe tingakwaniritsire ubale wathunthu mwa njira yosavuta komanso yofunikira.

Tili otsimikiza kuti nkhani za kugonana nthawi zonse ndi zochitika zonse zolaula ndi imodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri zogonana. Ndipo izi ndi zovuta kutsutsana nazo, chifukwa zotsatira za ziwerengerozo zimatsimikizirika kuti kugonana kokhazikika ndi zochitika zogonana zimatha kupeza gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu alionse a kugonana kwabwino. Zotsatira za kafukufuku wamakono sizingatheke, koma nambala zolimba ndi zowonongeka zingagonjetsedwe, mulimonsemo, nkofunikira kuyesera kuzichita ndi kuchepetsa khama.

Timakhulupirira kuti njira yogonjetsera zovuta zotero sizovuta, ndipo zimatheka ndithu. Tiyeni tiyesetse kumvetsetsa chinsinsi cha kugonana kosakumbukira nthawi zonse.

Ndi kangati amayi akulota kugonana "mwanjira yina," "mwanjira yatsopano," osati monga nthawi zonse? Timakangana za malo atsopano, malingaliro, malo atsopano kapena zatsopano, zachilendo kwa inu, nthawi ya kugonana. Ambiri angakonde kusintha chinachake, kuti abweretse chinachake chatsopano mumseche wawo komanso osasangalatsa, koma amabisa malingaliro awo ndi maloto awo, ndipo, motero, amanyalanyaza zonsezo kuchokera kwa munthu (mwinamwake wina wadzizindikira yekha).

Ndiye ndani, funsolo likubwera, ndi lolakwa? Kaŵirikaŵiri, ndipo kawirikawiri nthawi zambiri, chilango cha izi chiyenera kuikidwa kwa wokondedwa yemwe adabwera ndi lingaliro la kusintha miyambo yawo ya kugonana ndi chikhumbo cholowa mu gawo latsopano la kugonana. Kawirikawiri zokambirana zoterezi, ngakhale m'mabanja omwe akhala pamodzi kwa zaka zingapo, zimawoneka ngati zonyansa komanso zotsekedwa. Mabanja okwatirana amachotsa zilakolako zatsopano ndi zatsopano ndi malingaliro apamtima, osati kuyankhula za momwe akumverera komanso kusakhutira. Dziwani kuti nthawi zambiri mnzanuyo amatha kuona ndi kuyembekezera 100 peresenti momwe angachitire pazakhalidwe zina, kuti akukhutireni.

Komanso, ifenso tingathe kuopa kudzidzimva tokha ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa zofunikira zathu za kugonana.

Zonsezi zingathe kutsogolera kusabvundika kwa kugonana, komanso zovuta kwambiri, komanso mu zovuta zogonana. Mwa kulola moyo wanu wapamtima ukugwedezeka, ife tokha tidzitetezera tokha ku chiyanjano chokhulupilira ndi mnzanu.

Kodi ndizochititsa manyazi komanso kulankhula manyazi ponena za zilakolako zanu zachinsinsi ndi wokondedwa wanu yemwe angathe kuthana ndi kufunikira kokhala ndi moyo wathanzi wathanzi? Kodi ubale wapamtima si mbali ya moyo wathu yomwe muyenera kumvetsera mwatcheru?

Pansi ndi zovuta, kutsogolo ku zilakolako zowala ndi zatsopano! Ndipo kuti tipambane kudzichepetsa ndi manyazi, katundu wa chikondi, kukongola ndi thanzi la sitolo yathu ya pa Intaneti LiebeLiebe.ru ikhoza kuthandizira mosavuta . Zogulitsa zathu zokhudzana ndi kugonana zimathandizira pa nthawi iliyonse ya chibwenzi.