Makhalidwe abwino Masiku ano

M'mbiri yonse ya chitukuko anthu, anthu ambiri kuzifuna ubwino wake ndi zinthu, chifukwa iwo intuitively kumva kulondola njira iyi ya moyo. Pa nthawi yomweyo, kwakhala ankhanza ndi zigawenga ankafuna mphamvu, Ulamuliro ndi nkhondo, chifukwa cha zomwe zinali zotheka kuti akagwire chuma anthu ena ndi kupeza mphamvu kwambiri. Komabe, ngakhale onse, makhalidwe abwino nthawi zonse zimawoneka ngati chinthu chachikulu kudziwa munthu ndi malo ake pakati pa anthu.

Asayansi ndi anzeru a m'mbuyomu ndinazindikira kuti makhalidwe abwino ndi mbali yofunika ya munthu aliyense, chifukwa kuwonjezekeredwa mmenemo chibadwire. Umboni wa zimenezi ndi chakuti palibe ana zoipa. ana onse ku mawonedwe a zamaganizo ndi maganizo apamwamba zabwino, chifukwa sali komabe view wamkulu wa moyo ndi chilakolako chuma, akatundu, ndi mphamvu pa anthu ena. Mwana sangakhale ndi khalidwe, koma sizikutanthauza kuti iye ndi zoipa. Mwana aliyense ayenera anakuphunzitsani makhalidwe abwino, monga iwo akhale kwa iye chandamale yaikulu m'dziko lathu lamavutoli.

Mbali yaikulu ya nthawi yathu ndi absolutization ndi maganizo "ufulu". Kuti akukhala muyezo waukulu mutasankha a chitukuko cha munthu. ufulu Constitutional anakhazikitsa lamulo, akhala kwa anthu ambiri chinthu chachikulu mu ntchito zochitika zina, ndipo izi, mwatsoka, si chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri. Ngati mfundo kale makhalidwe bwino chimatanthauza mfundo zabwino ndi zoipa, koma lero kusiyana pafupifupi satero, chifukwa palibe Kumvetsa mfundo imeneyi. Zoipa imatengedwa lamulo la yeniyeni ndi itachita zinthu wrongful amene akuphwanya ufulu wa munthu wina. Ngati chilamulo cha aliyense amakhala sikuti mukulakwitsa, ndiye basi amakhala chovomerezeka ndi zolondola. Izi ndi zoipa kwambiri, makamaka kwa ana athu.

Waukulu kudziwa chinthu, chimene chimagwira ntchito kwambiri pa chitukuko ndi kusintha moyo ndi anthu zauzimu, chipembedzo. Lero yafupika mwambo yosavuta tsiku ndi tsiku kuti siichitanso phindu lauzimu. Ngakhale kuti anthu kupitiriza kubatiza ana, kuti sakondwerera Isitala ndi Khirisimasi, sadzakhalanso aganyali zikondwerero zimenezi wopatulika nzeru zauzimu. Yakhala wamba, chifukwa mu makhalidwe abwino ambiri agwa kwambiri.

Ufulu wakhala chinthu chachikulu chitukuko cha munthu ano, omwe lero si motsogozedwa ndi mfundo khalidwe komanso zochita "makhalidwe abwino kapena oipa" ndi "malamulo kapena ayi malamulo." Onse zikanakhala bwino ngati malamulo athu anapelekedwa Anthu oona mtima ndi zaukhondo, komanso mogwirizana ndi malamulo a makhalidwe abwino , ndi ulemu.

Chitsanzo chabwino mwina makhalidwe abwino nzeru, chifukwa koposa zonse, chilungamo, kukhulupirika ndi anzeru oona ndi anzeru. Choncho, munthu ano adzakhala zothandiza kuti agwera mu nzeru wakale ndi kuphunzira, osachepera, ndi mawu odziwika kwa anzeru a m'mbuyomu. Monga ana athu, n'kofunika kuyambira ali kuphunzira kwa ife akulu ndizosowa khalidwe labwino ndi maganizo kwa anthu ena. makhalidwe kusewera mu nkhani imeneyi mbali yaikulu, monga siteji koyamba chitukuko, kuthandiza mwana kuti ndipewe zochita ndi zoipa, ndipo kenako iye chiongoko posankha zochita mwanzeru wa moyo. Ndipotu, kuona mtima ndi ukali mapeto nthawi kupambana, chifukwa lamulo kwa dziko zimene zimakhudza munthu amene sangathe.