Mtima mawu wokondedwa: kulankhula kapena ayi?

Mu dziko muli olakwika ambiri, ena mwa iwo ndi amene mkazi ayenera kukhala odekha, zofewa ndi ofewa, ndi munthu - amphamvu ndi kulimbikira wamwamuna. Malinga izi, ambiri ma motere adziwane ndi kufanizitsa ndi chakuti khalidwe lawo ndi kupanga maganizo.

Amuna zofewa kwambiri

Otuluka pamwamba, anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kupeza Kuthokoza ndi mawu mtundu - gawo la akazi, koma osati mwamuna. N'chifukwa kukula wamwamuna zofewa amene ukungosowa kuti kubweretsa ndalama m'nyumba ndipo amakayikira ngati onse ndi zomwe zimatengera, ife tinakonda? Koma kuganiza motere - ziri zoyipa, lonse la munthu aliyense, kaya mwamuna kapena mkazi, akusowa thandizo mawu, kukambirana kosangalatsa ndi mawu wachifundo osachepera pang'ono.

Kodi kunena kuti: matamando

Pofuna kuti mawu wokoma kwa wokondedwa, mkazi angaganize kuti: kodi muyenera kunena kuti kunali koyenera ndi sanali kuwoneka intrusive? Choyamba, tiyenera kuti m'pofunika ndithu kutamanda wake wokondedwa. Ngakhale pamene yooneka konse. Similar mawu mwangwiro Zimachititsa kugonana wamphamvu mu ntchito zazikulu, ndi kufuna kukhala bwino kwambiri ankayembekezera, mwamsanga imayendetsa munthu. Pankhaniyi, mawu angakhale "Kodi ine ndachita!", "Inu ndinu mwini ntchito zonse", "Inu ndinu earner wathu ankakonda", etc.

Kodi kunena kuti: kukongola

Mawu wokoma kwa wokondedwa, mukhoza ndi chifukwa cha maonekedwe ake. Ndipo pamene amuna si kwambiri, koma izo zikanakhala zabwino amve ngati aliyense. Zothandiza kudzakhala mawu: "Lero ndiwe wokongola", "Inu muli nawo makutu wokongola kwambiri (mphuno, maso, mapewa)", etc.

Kodi kunena kuti: mphamvu

Munthu aliyense, ngakhale chosonyeza okha ofanana wochita mpikisano, akufuna kudziwa zimene onse mofanana amaona wotetezera m'zonse. mawu wachifundo kwa wokondedwa angathe kuwulula kukula kwa thupi lake, ngakhale ndi bodza pang'ono. Ambiri mwa kugonana mphamvu ngati akuti "Inu ndinu amphamvu," "manja ndi mapewa anu basi zodabwitsa," etc.

Kodi kunena za kudalirika kwa

mawu odekha wokondedwa amathanso kuulula zomwenso yake mtetezi wa banja kui kukhulupirika kwa awiri. Ichi ndi zambiri komanso zofunika kukumbutsa wokondedwa. Ambiri ankayembekezera chiweruzo munthu aliyense adzakhala, "Inu ndinu athu (anga) mtetezi", "Tili nanu inu, ngati mpanda wamiyala" etc ...

Kodi kunena za yekha

Kulankhula mawu wokoma a chikondi munthuyo, tiyenera kusiya chisamaliro chake pa mfundo yakuti iye ndi mmodzi yekhayo zotero mu dziko lonse. Ndipo ngati iye ali moyo, palibe wina, ndipo simuyenera. chofunika kwambiri Pankhaniyi adzakhala akuti "Popanda inu moyo wanga ndi zopanda pake," "Ine kungoyang'ana timachita misonkhano ndi inu," "Inu - dzuwa wanga", etc.

Kodi kunena za chikondi

zofunika kwambiri ndi mawu okongola munthu wa chikondi. Monga wokoma kulongolola ya mkazi wake wokondedwa wa chirichonse za mmene imeneyo chabe kukonda munthu wabwino. Apa ndi wofunika akuti, "Ndimakonda ndimakukonda," "Kodi mwayi tinakumana", "kumwamba anatipatsa mwayi pamodzi ndi kukondana wina ndi mzake," etc.