Ndizotheka ngati muli ndi munthu wokondedwa. Koma kodi mungatani kuti muteteze maganizo anu, omwe poyamba anali, kwa zaka zambiri?
Osati wokondedwa kokha, komanso mnzanu
Yesetsani kupanga chikhalidwe chakukhulupilira kwathunthu mu ubale wanu. Chitani kuti munthu wokondedwa akhoza kukhala yekha ndi inu, kotero kuti safunikira kuoneka wamphamvu ndi wamphamvuyonse. Mwanjira iliyonse, iye adzakhala wofooka mu chinachake. Koma kusiyana ndikuti ngati mumulola kuti asonyeze zofooka izi, adzakukhulupirirani kwambiri. Adzagawana nanu malingaliro ake, zolinga, mantha ndi kukayikira, popanda kuwopa kutsutsidwa ndi kunyozedwa. Ngati muwonetsa kuti mumasowa munthu wabwino wopanda zoperewera, zofooka zake sizidzapita kulikonse. Zingokhala kuti adzazibisa mosamala, osadzipereka yekha ku malingaliro anu ndi kumverera kwanu.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti wokondedwa wachita cholakwika, "yambani" mnzanu. Tangoganizani kuti wokondedwa wanu ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima basi. Kodi mungatani muzochitika izi? Kawirikawiri amuna samasowa uphungu, amayesetsa kuthetsa mavuto onsewo. Ingonetsani chithandizo. Mungathe kunena ngati, "Inde, sizinali zoona, koma zomwe zachitidwa sitingasinthe tsopano tiyeni timange pa zomwe tili nazo panopa, ndilibe mbali yanu, musadandaule, Tidzakumana ndi vutoli ... Ndiwe wamphamvu / wanzeru / ... munthu. Zonse zidzakhala bwino. " Ngati "mudula" wokondedwayo, sikusintha kanthu. Ngati munthu akuzindikira kuti walakwitsa, adzidzudzula yekha chifukwa chochita zoipa popanda iwe. Osati kutsanulira mafuta pamoto ndikuyika kudzipangitsa kudzidalira. Khalani ogwirizana. Mulole mnyamata amene mumakonda amudziwe kuti amamukonda ndi kuyamikiridwa ndi zofooka zake zonse.
Musakhale "Mummy"
Chibadwa cha amayi chimayikidwa mwa ife, koma musanyoze chikondi chanu chosadziwika kwa mwamuna. Iye ndi wamkulu komanso munthu wodziimira, ngakhale zitakhala choncho. Ngati mumakhala osasamala kuti mukondweretse mnzanu wokondedwa, posachedwa angathe, monga momwe akunenera, "khalani pamutu ndi miyendo yanu kuti mupachike." Kapena iye adzatopa ndi kusamala kwanu mopitirira muyeso ndi kukuwukirani. Zosankha zonsezi sizikugwirizana ndi ife. Lolani munthu wokondedwa wanu kuti asankhe zochita payekha ndikukhala ndi zotsatira za zotsatira zake. Ngakhale mutadziwa kuti zochita zake zidzakhumudwitsa, musaumirire. Fotokozani maganizo anu ndipo muzisiye momasuka kuti musankhe. Apo ayi, mmalo mwa chithandizo, mudzalandira mwana wina. Mwamuna sangathe kukhala ndi malingaliro omveka kwa mkazi yemwe amachita monga mayi.
Phatikizani kumverera kwathunthu
Lolani nokha kukonda! Dzikondeni nokha ndipo perekani caress, chisamaliro ndi chilakolako kwa okondedwa anu. Musalole kuti chibwenzi chanu chikhale "schizophrenia". Lolani kusekerera, zokondweretsa, zochitika. Musalole moyo kukhala "wowawa"! Yesani!
Komanso musaiwale za "zosangalatsa" zilizonse. Mwachitsanzo, lembani SMS yofatsa kapena yokonda, pamene simukukhala. Inu mukhoza kubwera ndi mphatso yapachiyambi yapadera kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu. Pangani miyambo yanu - mwachitsanzo, m'mawa kuti mumwa khofi ndi kukambirana za chinachake. Inu mumalenga moyo wanu! Gwiritsani ntchito izi.