Musayese kusangalatsa aliyense - ndi Chinsinsi cha kulephera

Kumeneko mu dziko ndi munthu yemwe ankakonda chilichonse? Nkomwe. Ndi Mwana wa Mulungu panali otsutsa, koma yogwira kuti iwo anaganiza kuti tichotse izo ndi kuwonongedwa thupi. Kodi tinganene chiyani za ife ochimwa? Komabe, pali anthu amene amafuna kusangalatsa aliyense. Iwo amafuna bwino njira yakuti iwo amatenga kwa kuvutanganitsidwa wopanda kusunthira mmwamba ntchito makwerero ndi kumanga asapita nkhondo lopanda ndi ena. Njira imeneyi yakhala ntchito caustic chimatanthauza kuti luso la "kukwera popanda sopo." Pasanapite nthawi yaitali, chikhumbo chofuna kukondweretsa aliyense akadali kumayambitsa mkangano, ndipo zotsatira zake zingakhale sizimadziwika aakulu.

Mukutanthauza chiyani "ngati"?

Mtsikana limatiuza za mnyamata amene iye amakonda, iye kawirikawiri amakhala mu malingaliro boma la chikondi, potengera ubwino wa ena (kwenikweni kapena kungoganiza) cha osankhidwawo. Alandira maonekedwe a chikondi ali aang'ono angathe kukhala chilichonse: mkulu mlingo wa nzeru, kukula kwa thupi lamphamvu, wokongola nkhope, zovala kwamakono, pamaso pa banknotes mu thumba, ndipo ngakhale chilema (mwachitsanzo, pugnacity, anatengedwa mtima). Mfundo anyamata kulankhula za chomwecho, iwo nthawi zambiri chithunzi chabwino ndi wokongola nkhope ndi onse, iwo ali kale openga. Koma aliyense ali ndi makonda osiyana, ndipo pamapeto, Munthu akapeza angapo okha. Pa nthawi yomweyo, achinyamata, monga ulamuliro, musati wofuna chikondi chonse, alikufuna zimene maganizo, kapena zochepa mwadala. Pali, ndithudi, ndipo amene amaika luso lawo monga tsiku ndi mwadongosolo, koma iwo ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito zosiyanasiyana zipangizo, monga njira chilengedwe palibe koma anatulukira. anthu ambiri ali kulawa zipatso kapena zipatso, koma kupita pa ulendo nsomba, ndi ofunika kutenga nawo iwo, ndi zonse mtsuko unyolo.

zifukwa zimene anthu akufuna ankakonda aliyense

Kodi bwino chilakolako izi zikhoza anazindikira, funso lachiwiri. Pomaliza, woyera mtima ali yense anathera mphamvu, alandira kwambiri mfundo zanga, nkhani ndi zochita zina ndi m'chikumbumtima chawo, osati chifukwa iye Kholuy chikhalidwe. Izo zimangotanthauza kutumikira kukwaniritsa ena cholinga. Ndipo zingakhale chilichonse. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wina akufuna kumva kufunikira kwake ndi kufunika, ndipo akhoza kudalira yekha pa maganizo anthu ambiri. Wina ndi mantha kusungulumwa, ndipo m'malo kupeza mabwenzi enieni (omwe si ambiri) amayesetsa anazungulira ndi "anzawo zabwino." Nthawi zina munthu sakufuna kukhumudwitsa anthu amene iye wochirikiza wake, kapena kuopa nkhondo zotheka, chifukwa ndi assents. Koma zingakhalenso zifukwa zina, monga mlandu yosokoneza, kudziyang'anira ndi kulephera kukonda anthu (ndipo ine mwini) indetu, komanso kuyesetsa kukwaniritsa kumverera yabwino kwambiri obsequiousness.

Njira ndi njira

choncho ndi zovuta ndi zovuta. Kuti apeze chifundo cha anthu, ndipo nthawi zina adani maganizo ndi malingaliro a mtengo, tiyenera kuyang'ana kwa "mzere ndale" pakati otsutsana "minda mphamvu." N'zovuta, ndi chilakolako zonse kusunga muyezo ndi mbali yaikulu pa khalidwe ndi khalidwe, ndipo ngakhalenso maonekedwe.

Zodabwitsa, poyesa bwino chophweka njira, tili ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri. Anthu oterewa, ndikofunika kuzindikira za, m'kukoma mayamiko odalirika. Zimafuna mkulu wodzilamulira bungwe, kukumbukira ndani, ndipo pamene ananena chisokonezo mwinamwake mosalephera mu mawonekedwe a mawu si a maganizo muyenera pa mphindi. Ndipo nthawi zonse muyenera kumwetulira, Yosefera nyama nkhope. Ndi kupotokola khosi mbali zonse. Kulankhula zinthu okha zosangalatsa. Ndipo osataya mtima pa ntchito. Ndipo ngati wina afunsa za utumiki munthu, zooneka mosavuta ndi chimwemwe yomweyo kumvetsa chifukwa. Unabereka ndi gait wapadera ndi pamapindikira wachisomo wa kumbuyo, limene akudutsa.

Ambiri, mantha.

kuwonongeka

Iye posachedwa kapena mtsogolo. Kawirikawiri chifukwa kukhudzana ndi nkhondo, kunja kwa kudziletsa ndipo lidzasinthidwa "siteji chamoto". Kanyumba adzakhala kusonkhanitsa nkhokwe zonse, pamene maganizo kukhulupirira "kuti m'zonse, wokongola munthu" monga anali ofanana ndi. Ndipo apa iwo amayamba. Mmodzi thandizo - zolakwa zina. komanso si kutalikitsa kulengeza chosalowerera ndale, ndiye osakhutira chifuniro mbali zonse. Ndiyeno, pamene iwo tikupeza ubale, zikhoza "olimba mtima" pa chigawenga, pamodzi kumenya izo. Kumvetsa onse choti akhale - chinsinsi kulephera, nthawi zambiri mochedwa kwambiri. "Nice munthu" kuzindikiridwa ndi zosafunikira dona wamkulu ntchito. Kuwonongeka zikachitika, poyerekeza ndi zomwe kulephera mu machesi payekha - nawo enviable.