Mwamuna wamphamvu - ziyenera kukhala bwanji?

Nthaŵi ina munthu wathanzi wathanzi adanena kwa ochkarik wa satana: "Inde, ndikukhoza kukumeza ndi giblets!". Momwemo munthu wolimba mtima adayankha motsimikiza kuti: "Panopa, mimba yako idzakhala ndi ubongo wambiri kusiyana ndi mutu wako." M'mbuyo iyi makhalidwe a umunthu wamphamvu amawululidwa mokwanira . Sichiyenera kukhala womenya nkhondo. Inde, "minofu yamphamvu ya IQ sichitha", koma popanda iwo mukhoza kukhala wopambana ku mavuto ambiri a moyo. Chizindikiro choyamba cha mphamvu ndi kudzidalira. Osati kunyada, kutembenukira ku kudzitamandira kwachitsiru ndi kubwebweta, kutanthauza chikhulupiriro mwa iwe mwini monga munthu.

Izi zofooka ziyenera kuwonetsa aliyense momwe alili wamphamvu komanso wolimba mtima. Mwa kuchititsa manyazi ena, mtundu uwu woyesera kudzuka m'maso mwawo ndi maganizo a ena, ndipo nthawi zambiri amayesa ndi kamphindi kakang'ono kuti atsimikizire mlandu wawo. Munthu wamphamvu ndi "munthu". Izi sizikutanthauza kuti iye ndi wololera kapena wovomerezeka. Iye samangokhala "kuwonekera". Iye amadziwa kale chomwe iye ali. Mphamvu zake ndi mphamvu zowonjezera zimadalira kudzidalira, ndipo mafunde amphamvu amawatenga, ngakhale atakhala chete. Amadziwa zomwe akufuna, ndipo amapita ku cholinga chake, ngakhale zopinga. Ndipo uwu ndi khalidwe lake lotsatira.

Munthu wamphamvu saopa kulephera. Mwachibadwa, amayesetsa kuwapewa - kumene angathe. Nthawi zina zimakhala zolakwika kwambiri. Izi zimachitika kuti akuvutika ndi fiasco yopweteka. Koma nthawi zonse amadziwa kuwuka pambuyo kugwa ndipo ali ndi kulimbika mtima kuti atsatire. Anthu ambiri amakumana ndi zolephera zawo: amawatsatira pambuyo pa moyo wawo wonse . Tikuopa kudziwana ndi mtsikanayo, chifukwa chakuti poyamba adakana ife. Nkhaniyi ndi munga mu mtima, kubwezeretsa kumbuyo, poyikira pakalipano ndi kutaya tsogolo. Munthu yemwe ali ndi chitetezo chamkati ali pamwamba pa zolephereka, amatsatira cholinga chake ndipo ali mtsogolo, osaganizira za kale.

Munthu wamphamvu ndi wongopeka. Iye samavala magalasi a utawaleza, koma amadziwa bwino makhalidwe ake abwino ndi oipa. Amanena kuti zonse zikumuyendera bwino pamakhalidwe abwino, ndipo amadzidzudzula chifukwa cha zolephera zake. Komabe, munthu woteroyo amavomereza kulakwitsa kwake, osati mowona mtima, ndiko kuti, samayamba kudzipangira yekha, koma amafufuza momwemo, amavomerezera pomwe analakwitsa ndipo amapanga phunziro la m'tsogolo. Kudzichepetsa kwambiri, monga kudzimvera chisoni chisoni, ndiko kutaya nthawi ndi mphamvu kwa anthu oterowo. Iwo amangopita ku cholinga chawo. Iye samayambanso kudzitamandira mokweza za kupambana kwake - ndibwino kutamanda ena kuposa ma dithyramb kwa iyemwini.

Munthu wamphamvu samadziyerekezera ndi ena. Iye amadziwa kale dziko lake lamkati bwino kwambiri. Iye samavomereza maganizo ake, omwe angakhale oipitsitsa kuposa ena - mwachilendo, ndithudi, osati makhalidwe aliwonse. Pachifukwa china, iye saweruza kokha ndi zomwe akufuna kumuuza za iye mwini, kapena kuwonetsa. Amalemekeza munthu aliyense ndi dziko lake lamkati, ali wokonzeka kumvera malangizo, koma lingaliro lomaliza limakhalabe kwa iye. Iye yekha ndiye wosula mthunzi wake. Munthu wotero amapita ku cholinga mwachidwi ndi molimba mtima, ndipo kuchokera pa zovuta ndi zolephera, manja ake samasiya.

Munthu wamphamvu samalola kuti azigwiritsidwa ntchito. Amatha kuugwira mtima. Munthu wotero nthawi zonse amadzifunsa kuti: Kodi ndikuchita bwino? Kodi ndi chifukwa chanji chakumvera kapena kusamvetsetsa kwa izi kapena munthu ameneyo? Kodi mkwiyo sunganditsogolere? Anthu oterewa ndi otseguka kwa ena - okonzeka kukhululukira, amaiwala mosavuta zovuta. Pokhala amphamvu, amatha kuthandiza ofooka. Ndipo kukhazikika uku, lingaliro la ulemu likuyang'anitsitsa njira zabwino za ena. Kupita kwa amphamvu, iwo amayang'ana, mosaganizira moyenera mtsogoleriyo. Mtsogoleri wobadwira, mosiyana ndi kumka kwachidziwitso, safunikira kuzindikira kupembedza, kunyalanyaza ndi kunyalanyaza ena - amadziwa kale zomwe zili zoyenera.