Ndimalota Kumasulira: maloto amene zakale

Chifukwa ndimalota za kale? Pamene palibe nthawi n'kuwononga wokondedwa, maganizo zimene zinachitika zatenga nthawi zambiri. Ndipo pali, ndithudi, palibe zauzimu, pamene maloto wakale chibwenzi. Izo ziyenera tanthauzo la ena maloto Kawirikawiri ndinamuwona msungwana.

Chifukwa ndimalota za kale? Ngati mtsikana wake wakale wokonda m'maloto kudzakomananso - umboni kuti mmene akhala wamkulu ozizira, namkulunga, zolimba, ndi kuipidwa anamuchokera. Ndi nthawi kuleka kukumbukira onse ndi kuyang'ana chikondi chatsopano.

Kukachitika kuti wakale bwenzi la mtsikana m'maloto kuoneka mafano osiyana kapena zochitika - kuti dona wamng'ono kuti kuvomereza kuti kumverera kwenikweni mu mtima, munthu uja chikuchitika mu mtima. Koma ngati inu adzikonzenso ubale anataya - kanthu zimachitika. Choncho ndi bwino kuiwala ndi kusiya mumandizunza chokumbukira moyo wake.

Kodi maloto anali ndi chilakolako chake chatsopano - mafunso ngati Zingabukenso zambiri. Ichi ndi pamaso zosasangalatsa, inde. Koma ndi nyengo yachisanu ikupita kusintha moyo.

Ndi bwino kuganizira zimene maloto wakale pa Dream Miller. Ngati kachiwiri pali kukumana ndi iye, ndiyeno mtundu wa chibwenzi - n'zotheka kuti posachedwapa chinachake chichitika kuti adzakhala kugwirizana ndi kale ubwenzi. Ndimalota za chimpsopsono - posachedwa padzafika chochitika zodabwitsa ndi kugonana - nkhondo. Tasiya - kusintha mu moyo wake mu njira yabwino, ankasiyana - kukumana anthu latsopano limene lidzathetsa, mwatsoka, zoipa. Ndinkafuna kudzakhala nkhondo? Izi zikutanthauza kuti padzakhala makhalidwe bwenzi chenicheni chofuna kuchita mwini. Kapena m'chizimezime adzalenga bwenzi watsopano, authoritarian kwambiri.

Nchifukwa chiyani tili ndi maloto za kale pa Dream Kutanthauzira Vanga? Chifukwa zikuoneka kuti si kwathunthu mbisoweka ku moyo wa msungwana. Ndimalota anthu wakale wamng'ono - dona wamng'ono chakudya chiyembekezo kubwezera. Ngati iwo ali pamodzi mu maloto - mtima potsiriza mlekeni apite.

Freud ndi maloto buku limanena kuti ngati mkazi ali kale mu maloto, ndi chiyambi posachedwapa kuchitika kukangana ndi ndiwotani pano.

Zimachitika kuti loto iye amaona ukwati ku mkwatibwi akutumikira monga wakale ake, ndi udindo wa Mkwatibwi - mtsikana wina. Izi zikutanthauza kuti dona wamng'ono wina kukhululukira mulandu uliwonse. Ngati zakale kwenikweni akwatira - akubwera ndi mavuto aakulu ngati iye akutenga chikondi chake mokhudza - posachedwapa akhala ndithu anadabwa zosangalatsa. Pamene iye afa m'maloto - mwinamwake mtsikana amene amaona posachedwapa wokwatira ndipo mwina adzabala wolowa nyumba.

Zimachitika kuti mkazi kulota mwamuna wakale. Kuti akumane. Izi imatengedwa chiyambi zotheka kanthu zosafunikira pa mbali ya madona, umene zikuphatikizapo mavuto aakulu. Litatha kapena okwatira mtsikana amene amaona maloto otere angayembekezere kuyenda mwadzidzidzi yokakamiza, si zosangalatsa ndikawapempha zokhudza chuma ndi zina zokhudza ake.

Ngati loto limene iye aswa ndi wakale wa (mu moyo weniweni), mnyamata, ndi kafungo zimene posachedwa mwina chinthu chimene chidzasintha moyo wake kwa bwino.