Pamene inu mukhoza kukhala pansi mnyamata

Nthawi zambiri makolo adzazunzidwa funso lakuti: "Kodi ndingatani pansi mnyamata" Kusapirira mayi ndi bambo nthawi zonse penapake mofulumira, kukankhira mwana wake kwa odziwa oyambirira a dziko.

Mu angati anyamata ndi mpando - kusamvetsetsana. Pa dzanja limodzi, ana ambiri amayamba ndiyesera muyezo mu miyezi sikisi. Pa zina - pamene kuyenda ukufika m'badwo uno, koma sikuti amafuna kukhala, iye anayamba "thandizo" wokhala pa dzanja kapena cushions lapansi. Komabe, akatswiri musati amalangiza kuchita izo mwamsanga kuposa miyezi 6.

kusiyana achindunji mmene inu mukhoza kukhala pansi anyamata kapena atsikana, palibe. Izi zidalira pa mlingo munthu wa chitukuko cha mwana wanu, kukhumba kwake ndi kufunitsitsa angaphunzire msanga m'dzikoli, komanso olimba lake. mfundo ndi yakuti pamene nyenyeswa yaing'ono anayamba kukhala pansi pa awo, matupi awo kale mphamvu zokwanira ndiponso amaona kuti chikhulupiriro mu nzeru zawo. Ngati timayesetsa kulimbikitsa chitukuko zambiri mofulumira dongosolo minofu ndi mafupa, makamaka msanga kuika mwana akhoza kukhala kwambiri kuvulaza iye.

Ngakhale mwana kale bwino omangika, atagwira cholembera amake, ndithu afika pa miyendo inayi ndi monga kugona pamenepo kale sakufuna, kukaonana ndi katswiri odzikonda kulowerera pa chitukuko. Ndipotu, ndithu popanda chifukwa palibe yeniyeni nthawi chimango pamene inu mukhoza kukhala pansi mnyamata.

Komabe, ngati muli okhudzidwa kwambiri kuti mwana wanu kwa miyezi sikisi, ndipo safuna kukhala, kufunsa dokotala. Iye kukayikira wanu ndi osautsa amachita mwatsatanetsatane mafunso onse okhudzana ndi chitukuko cha ana anu, makamaka, pamene inu mukhoza kukhala pansi mnyamata. Komanso, dokotala nthawi zonse adzakhala kudziwa ngati pali kuvutika aliyense mwana. Pamsinkhu uwu, iwo nthawi zambiri mosavuta kudzudzulidwa kutikitirako mankhwala madzi kapena wapadera gymnastic maofesi.

Atagwirizana pa zovuta osankhidwa ndi katswiri ana, muli ndi ufulu kuchita ndi mwana wanu zosiyanasiyana zokambirana. Mwachitsanzo, "velosipedik" - woyamba mwendo umodzi, kenako ena, ndiye onse mwakamodzi, ndipo potsiriza kutembenukira. "Chule" alinso olimbitsa muyezo makanda. Koma kumbukirani kuti magulu onse zizichitidwa mwaulemu, popanda kuchititsa nyenyeswa izi kakgo kusapeza iliyonse. Musaiwale komanso zambiri kufalitsa mwanayo pamimba pake, nachita tikutembenuzika. Dzanja kukoka minofu amalimbikitsidwa ndi chilekano mu madera osiyana. Ngati mwana ali ndi kukana osiyana, kumupatsa nthawi yokwanira yopuma ndi kumasuka.

Patapita miyezi 6, pamene inu mukhoza kukhala pansi mnyamata, zosiyanasiyana zokambirana izi pang'onopang'ono kumawonjezera. Kamwana zosaneneka ndikondwera zomverera watsopano, ndipo adzakhala okondwa kupitiriza ntchito.

Mudzaona tiana tating'ono moleza mtima kwambiri kuchita Zochita kutero. Ndipotu, iwo monga inu mukufuna mofulumira mukaphunzire pa dziko awo, akulu ndi odabwitsa.