Childfree - ndiko. Childfree mu Russian

A chodabwitsa chikhalidwe umene wakhala mutu wa nkhani ino, kuchitikanso mu Russia ndi mayiko ena CIS kuyambira mochedwa 90 - oyambirira 2000. Iwo ali ziyenera wosanganiza anthu sankadziwa za maganizo amenewa. M'mbali zambiri zotsutsana ndi zina zikuchepa zoipa maganizo zokhudzana, monga kawirikawiri, kupanda zambiri. Tikuyankhula zokhudza mfundo "childfree". Ndiko kuti, pamene ndi momwe kuwonekera zolinga ndi gulu chikhalidwe? Ndipo Chofunika, mmene anthu onse? M'nkhaniyi, ife iyankha mafunso onsewa ndi debunk nthano.

Mbiri ya zochitika

Childfree ( "childfree") mu njira Russian "mfulu kwa ana." Vuto limeneli anayamba mu 1970 mu United States pa ziwonetsero misa kwa ufulu, ufulu ndi ofanana. Apa analenga Organization National kwa Non-Makolo (ZOSAKHALA), adayima pa chiyambi cha ophunzira awiri a gulu loteteza ufulu wa akazi, Ellen Peck ndi Shirli Radl. Kutanthauza gulu anali kubweretsa anthu ndiwofatsa ndimaganiza kuti mkazi ali ndi ufulu kukhala opanda ana, ngati simukufuna.

mawu iyi inatulutsa atasintha mu malingaliro onse, chifukwa mpaka ndiye ankakhulupirira kuti akukukanani amazindikira kubereka ana kumafuna thupi kapena maganizo matenda katundu. Kunena molimba mtima Anthu awiri amapatsa chidaliro ndi akazi ena chimodzimodzi, koma sanayese n'komwe kunena mokweza. ZOSAKHALA gulu Pasanapite otchuka, ndipo mu 1980 anali lidzasinthidwa kayendedwe ka childfree. Koma ngati United States otsatira wopanda mwana moyo zambiri kuchita zinthu yogwira chikhalidwe ndi kutenga nawo zandale, danga pambuyo Soviet ndi gulu chikhalidwe ali ndi khalidwe zofuna za gululi.

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Pakati pa anthu amene samadziona kuti zodabwitsazi ndi alibe anzake oterowo, pali kusamvana zambiri ndipo nthano za childfree.

"Kodi nawo? Kodi mumafuna kuti mwana mmodzi? "

Iwo ayenera kukumbukira kuti kubereka ana si udindo, ndi kusafuna kuchita zilibe mufotokozere munthu mu njira negative. M'malo mwake, akuti oona mtima tokha ndi udindo m'tsogolo. Ana ataima choncho, pamene inu kwenikweni ndi chilakolako ndi mphamvu youkitsa mwamuna wamng'ono.

"Izi ndi kukana dala makolo, kutanthauza childfree chidani ana?"

Si choncho. Poyerekezera ambiri mbadwo achinyamata akulu awa ranges ku wabwino mpaka ndale osayanjanitsika. Anthu ambiri mwaufulu opanda ana odala nthawi yocheza nephews wanga ndi aakazi, ndi ana a anzawo ndi zina zotero. D. ambiri diehard childfree bwinobwino kuzindikira kuthekera kwawo m'munda wa chiphunzitso. Munthu akhoza kungowauzira dziwani kuti "ufulu mwana" ndi wovuta kwambiri kuyesayesa yogwira zoika moyo.

"Childfree Chayldheyt ndi - ndichiyani? Chimodzimodzi kapena zosiyana? "

Kusokoneza zinthu zimenezi osiyana kwambiri, anthu afike pomvetsetsa yakuti zaufulu chosoŵa - ndi zotsatira za moto udali achinyamata. Ngakhale "childfree" amatanthauza "ana ufulu", "chayldheyt" anamasuliridwa kuti "detonenavistniki". Osati ayenera kudziwa ndi ntchito-Anglicisms mawu, kumvetsa mmene zinthuzo awiri ali kutali Chrixitu. Gulu loyamba la anthu omasuka ndi ana ena, koma safuna kukhala zawo. Gulu lachiwiri akukumana ndi kulimbikira zoipa kumverera kwa anthu pang'ono kuti angayambe ngakhale mu chiwawa. Alimiwa, nthawi yomweyo chisoni kuti akumuda ana si ana. Nthawi chiwawa maganizo kapena thupi m'banja zambiri chifukwa chakuti makolo zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, kumaonekera monga chayldheyter.

Malinga zamaganizo

Pakati pa moyo mkati mwa akatswiri anthu alibe maganizo bwino chifukwa chosoŵa kwawo. Kuyesetsa kuti mumvetse tanthauzo childfree monga umoyo maganizo chodabwitsa, nachita zamaganizo ndi izi zifukwa zotheka zosangalatsa:

1. Osakhala zinachitikadi ana.

Malinga ndi mfundo imeneyi, chifukwa cha kugwirizana childfree ndi mantha (sadziwa kapena zobisika) kubwereza chitsanzo cha makolo, amene anthu zowawa yekha mwana.

2. kudzikonda ndi chosakhwima.

Pankhaniyi, chosoŵa zaufulu amasankha munthu, amene iwo amati, "mwana wosatha". cholinga kotero achilendo kwenikweni kuchita zofuna zawo, komanso hedonism - ndi mtima wofuna kwambiri ndi moyo. Kutanthauza kuti anthu awa samaona mphamvu kusonyeza kuti lalikuru udindo, wachikondi, kulolerana ndi kudzipereka zofunika amayi tsogolo ndi makolo.

3. Mtima wofuna kukwaniritsa pamwamba akatswiri.

gulu tichipeza childfree, mtundu wa ntchito zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito ya, luso, masewera, sayansi, ndi zina zimene zimafuna kudzipereka lalikulu. Izi zikachitika, munthu alibe nthawi kapena mwayi, kapena ngakhale chabe kufunika kuchita kubadwa ndipo analeredwa wa mbewu. Ndipotu, kuphatikiza ntchito imene mumaikonda maphunziro wathunthu wa ana - Ntchito kovuta, makamaka mu zenizeni Russian.

4. mavuto magulu ndiwofatsa anthu.

mfundo ina ndi maganizo chodabwitsa childfree ndi kuonera monga poyankha malamulo a boma, akuitana kwa kubala ngati kuli kotheka komanso kusintha zinthu zaziwerengero. Kumene, mu nkhani iyi, kusankha chosoŵa ndi chikumbumtima - zimachitika kuti mopitirira muyezo maganizo kuthamanga maganizo.

Ndipo tsopano zifukwa kujowina mwaufulu opanda ana, zochokera kusiyana ndi abambo.

Akazi ndi amuna childfree

Kodi mu gulu limeneli chikhalidwe, zomwe zimakopa amuna ndi akazi?

Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti akazi zambiri ikuyendetsedwa ndi kufuna anazindikira mwaukadaulo ndi nthawi yambiri chitukuko kudzikonda. Inde, ndi mwana wamng'ono pa manja, n'zovuta kumanga ntchito, ndipo ngakhale pa kanthawi umayi tchuthi, mukhoza kutaya maloto anu ntchito. Komanso maphunziro a ana, makamaka mu zaka zoyambirira za moyo masamba nthawi pang'ono ndi mwayi kuyenda, kuphunzira ndi monga kuwerenga mabuku.

Amuna, iwo akusankha kalembedwe childfree moyo, nthawi zambiri motsogozedwa ndi chifukwa zosiyana kuposa akazi. Mtsutso waukulu kwa mwamuna amakhala kusafuna paphewa zachuma kuti zivute zitani tingafunse pa kubadwa ndipo analeredwa za m'tsogolo mwanayo. Anthu childfree ndikufuna kuti ufulu ndi udindo ochepa, ndipo mwayi nthawi zina aulesi kapena kuyenda popanda kukhala womangidwa ndi kufunika kudyetsa banja.

Mfundo ina mwaufulu anthu opanda ana a amuna ndi akazi amatchedwa: ngozi thanzi pobereka, kuwonongeka ubale m'banja ndi moyo bwino kuphwanya makolo pambuyo pa kubadwa.

Ambiri, machesi abwino kwa aliyense chayldfri bwenzi ndi zikhulupiriro enieni. Mu nkhani iyi, adzatha kumanga ubale zambiri zogwirizana, wopanda chikaiko kapena kusakhulupirirana mu nkhani zofunika kwambiri monga pobereka.

Free ndi otchuka

renunciation zaufulu za maphunziro a ana - chodabwitsa ndithu ambiri, koma ambiri anthu awa chifukwa cha peresenti 1-2 okha anthu a. Izi zikuphatikizapo ndipo asankha m'moyo childfree otchuka. Mwa iwo, mmodzi wa kommunistok woyamba ndi ozimitsa kwa ufulu wa amayi Clara Zetkin, filimu ndi Ammayi siriyo Renee Zellweger, Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Aniston, Kim Ketroll ndi Eva Mendes, TV makamu Opra Uinfri ndi Ksenia Sobchak, woimba Kayli Minoug.

Kutsutsika kwa amuna osabereka, ndi wosewera wotchuka Dzhordzh Kluni ndi Kristofer Uoken.

Kulankhulana kwa childfree

Kukumana anthu amene asankha chosoŵa zaufulu, mu nthawi yathu patsogolo zimachitika m'malo osiyanasiyana Internet. Pali maonekedwe yoyenera, magulu tsikulo dera, anthu ndi zina zotero. D. pamanambala awa ukonde angathe kulankhula ndi anzawo, kufunsa mafunso, zakukhosi kwake ndi kupeza mwamuna ndi kaonedwe chimodzimodzi.

Mabwalo

A Forum wotchuka ndi "Planet childfree". Apa, mapulogalamuwanso anawagawa zilonda, kukambirana nkhani moyo, nthabwala pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana (osati zokhudzana ndi nzeru za childfree), kulandira ndi kufalitsa mauthenga zothandiza - Mwachidule, omasuka. Forum "Planet childfree" ali ndi lingaliro ukhale kwa anthu amene tsiku ndi tsiku si atazunguliridwa ndi mtima umodzi pankhani ya kubereka ana, koma "adani maganizo", kuwonetsa kusadziwa kapena kusowa mwanzeru polankhulana.

ochezera

Kwambiri ndiponso zili childfree mdera ili mu "Live Journal". Pa nthawiyi, anali woyamba mu RuNet nsanja kulankhulana pakati pa anthu amene asankha chosoŵa kwawo.

Wotchuka kwambiri Russian ochezera a pa Intaneti alinso tsamba onse ndi gulu lathu childfree. Mmodzi wa anthu otchuka amatchedwa "Childfree ku Russia." "VKontakte" umabweretsa pamodzi ogwiritsa kuchokera m'mizinda yosiyanasiyana komanso m'mayiko kukhala kotheka kuti ndiyankhule pa nkhani ziliri pa pompopompo. Kuwonjezera magulu, pali Public anonymous maganizo, monga "anamva childfree". chodabwitsa china chidwi angatchedwe m'dera pa Intaneti lolunjika pa ubale wokwatiwa / okwatira kapena yaitali anthu. Pano mukhoza kukambirana mbali ya banja popanda ana, ndi kupempha malangizo milandu kusamvetsetsa ndi bwenzi pankhaniyi. Ambiri, zosiyanasiyana ankachita chikhalidwe - ndicho chimene iwo mamembala a gulu "Childfree mu Russian" ndi zina madera ofanana pa Intaneti.

m'malo mapeto

"Free Child" - choncho samaona kufunika kukhala ndi ana ndi mwadala osankhidwa chosoŵa. N'zosatheka iyo zosokoneza childfree, monga gulu alibe malamulo apadera kapena chosiyana mbali kunja. Ndipo kayendedwe chikhalidwe (osachepera m'mayiko CIS), iwo akhoza ankaona Tambasula, chifukwa saika patsogolo mawu ndipo musawaletse kusintha dziko. Ambiri tinganene kuti childfree - njira ya moyo, amene akhoza kumva kapena ayi, ulemu ndi khalidwe zedi, ngati chifukwa anthu awa amakhala oona mtima kusankha kwawo ndipo kupewa kuuza ena.