Kudana ndi chiyani? Kudana

Maganizo amphamvu kwambiri ndi chidani. Kodi chidani ndi zotani zomwe zingayambitse? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amasonyeza kuti poyamba munthuyo amafunikira chidani, chomwe nthawi zina amatha kugwiritsa ntchito mosangalala. Tidzakambirana za maganizo oipawa m'nkhaniyi.

Tanthauzo la lingaliro

Udani ndikumverera kwautali, kwakukulu, koipa, kusonyeza kunyansidwa, chidani, kukana chinthu china. Iwo akhoza kukhala kaya munthu kapena gulu la anthu, chinthu chopanda moyo kapena chodabwitsa. Kuitana kutengeka kumeneku kungathe kuchita kanthu kena kake kapena makhalidwe ake. N'zotheka kudana ndi lingaliro lomwe limatsutsana ndi zomwe amakhulupirira ndi zoyenera pa phunzirolo, chodabwitsa chomwe chimakhudza moyo wake, chimapangitsa kukhutira ndi zosowa zake zofunika. Maganizo olakwika akhoza kugwirizanitsidwa ndi mayesero achimwemwe ku zofooka zilizonse za malingaliro, ndi chilakolako cha zoipa zonse komanso chikhumbo chochivulaza.

Zimayambitsa

Maganizo a chidani angabwere pa nkhani yosafunika kwambiri ndi yochepa. Izi zikuwoneka kuti sizongoganizira za zifukwa zotere zomwe zinayambitsa akatswiri a zamaganizo kuti afotokoze za momwe munthu akufunira chidani. Maganizo amenewa akhoza kuikidwa mosavuta kuchokera kunja. Nkhondo ndi mitundu ina ya mikangano ya anthu ndi zandale nthawi zambiri zimatsagana ndi mabodza oyenera, kukakamiza chidani pakati pa anthu. Kudana ndi njira yachilendo, yosamvetsetseka, miyambo ndi zikhulupiliro zimapangitsa chiwawa chachikulu ku gulu lina la anthu kapena munthu wina. Mantha angayambe ngakhale payekha payekha, ngati munthuyo akuwona kuti sakufika pamtundu woyenera wazinenezo zake. Pa mulandu wina aliyense, munthu ayenera kupeza chifukwa cha chiwonongeko ku chinthu chidani, ndiye mkangano umene umayamba ukhoza kuthetsedwa, ndipo malingaliro achiwawa adzatha.

Chikondi ndi chidani

Zimakhulupirira kuti ziganizo ziwirizi zikusiyana kwambiri ndi wina ndi mzake ndipo ziri zotsutsana. Komabe, m'mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya dziko lapansi, zozizwitsa izi zimagwirizanitsidwa bwino ndipo zimaimira mgwirizano. Chikondi ndi chidani zimatha kuphatikizidwa pamodzi ndi munthu mogwirizana ndi zomwe akumva. Freud adalankhulanso za chikhalidwe chachiwiri cha izi. Katswiri wa psychoanalyst ankakhulupirira kuti pambali yachibwenzi paliponse pamakhala mikangano, yopangidwa ndi kutsutsana kwakukulu. Akatswiri ena amanena kuti kusonyeza chidani ndi chikondi kumagwirizanitsa ndi njira zamaganizo ndi zakuthupi zomwe zimapatsa anthu ndi zinyama kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima komanso chilakolako cha chiwawa.

Kufotokozera kotheka kwa chiyanjano pakati pa chikondi ndi udani kumakhala chifukwa chakuti munthu wina ali ofanana kwambiri ndi munthu wina, makamaka momwe iye amathandizira ndi iye komanso momwe amachitira nawo pachiyanjano chilichonse. Choncho, mkangano pakati pa okondedwa nthawi zonse umakhala ndi ukali waukulu ndi chilakolako kuposa anthu osadziwika. Kuperewera kwa zinthu zofanana ndi zofuna zimapangitsa mdaniyo kuzindikira moyenera.

Mitundu ya chidani

Kunyansidwa kwonyansa kosatsutsika kungayambitse chirichonse. Pa chinthu chidani, pali mitundu yambiri yakumverera kosayenera. Mwachitsanzo, kuwonjezera pa wamkulu, asayansi amasiyanitsa chidani chaubwana. Kawirikawiri zimakonzedwa ndi makolo pambuyo pakuonekera kwa mlongo kapena mbale m'banja. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amachititsa kuti maganizo a ana atulukire "Kaini akumva."

Mantha ndi chidani zimagwirizana kwambiri. Munthu amakumana ndi chilakolako cha chinthu chimene, zikuwoneka kuti, chingamuvulaze. Chiwonetsero chotere cha malingaliro oipa nthawi zina chimakhala chosasunthika. Asayansi amasiyanitsa mitundu yambiri ya matenda:

• Kusuta kwaukwati ndizovuta kwambiri kuukwati.
• Misandria - chidani cha mkazi kwa amuna.
• Mizohinia ndi mantha ndi chidani cha abambo kwa amai.
• Misopedia ndizovuta kwa ana, kuphatikizapo zawo.
• Misala yamisala ndi chidani kwa anthu onse.

Kawirikawiri amakhulupirira kuti munthu wophunzitsidwa kwambiri ndi munthu, ali ndi chifukwa chodana nacho, chomwe chimatanthauza malingaliro - chidziwitso cha anthu omwe ali ndi nzeru zochepa ndi zofooka.

Mitundu yaukali

Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, zimapangitsa chilakolako chovulaza chidani chanu. Zoipa zingayambitsidwe m'njira zosiyanasiyana, kotero akatswiri a maganizo amasiyanitsa mitundu yambiri ya nkhanza.

Mawu ndi matupi

Kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa mphamvu ya thupi kuti afotokoze maganizo awo olakwika kumatchedwa kusokoneza thupi. Chidani, chomwe chimasonyezedwa mwa kukangana, kuchitira nkhanza, kuneneza mawu ndi kuopseza, kumatengedwa ngati mawu.

Osalunjika ndi molunjika

Kuponderezedwa kwachindunji kumatsogozedwa mwachindunji pa chinthu cha chidani, chosalunjika - ndizochita zomwe zimagwira munthu wina mowirikiza, kudzera mu miseche, nthabwala zopweteka, komanso nthabwala zoopsa (kuponderezana ndi mapazi, kufuula, ndi zina zotero).

Kunja ndi mkati

Chidani chakunja chimatsogoleredwa kunja, ndi mkati - palokha. Wachiwiriwa amadziwonetsera mwa kudzichepetsa ndi chikhumbo chodzivulaza.

Wokonzeka (wathanzi) ndi wowononga

Nthaŵi zina zimakhala zovuta kudziŵa malire a nkhanza. Ena amawada ndi khalidwe lamphamvu. Ngati chiwawa chimawoneka chokongola ndipo chimachititsa chifundo, ndiye chingatchedwe kukhala wathanzi kapena wolungama.

M'chigawo chino, sikuti mitundu yonse ya chidani imatchulidwa. Muzochitikazi , anthu nthawi zambiri amakhala othandiza kwambiri.

Kudana ndi anthu

Pali lingaliro limene asayansi ndi akatswiri a maganizo amachitcha kuti "chidani pakati pa anthu". Kodi chodabwitsacho ndi chiyani? Ena amakhulupirira kuti uku ndikumverera kwachisoni ndi kunyansidwa ndi gulu la anthu. Chidani sichiribe kanthu. Ena amati maganizo amenewa amatchedwa chikhalidwe chifukwa amalingalira gulu lina la anthu kapena munthu wina monga nthumwi ya dera lino. Zomwe zimayambitsa chiwawa zingakhale zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana za chikhalidwe - chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, dziko, kugonana, zaka. Mu sayansi ya chikhalidwe cha anthu, kutanthauzira mtundu uwu wa chidani, pali lingaliro la "kusagwirizana". Pali kumvetsetsa kosavuta kwambiri pa phunziroli. Nthawi zina kudana ndi gulu kumatchedwa chidani cha anthu. Pa nthawi yomweyi, chisankho chachipembedzo ndi tsankho sichimasankhidwa.

Udani wa anthu umakhala wosiyana pakati pa magulu, ndipo amapatsidwa zosatsutsika ndipo mosakayikira amatsogolera kumbali yotsutsana. Maonekedwe osiyana, miyambo ndi chikhalidwe ndizo chifukwa cholimbana kwambiri. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti mlingo wa kusiyana kumeneku sikutanthauza udindo wapadera. Udani, mkwiyo pakati pa chiyanjano, chikhalidwe choyandikana, magulu ofanana (amati, zipembedzo, anthu) ndi owopsya kuposa anthu osadziŵana pakati pawo.

Uchidani

M'mayiko ena padziko lapansi muli chiyeneretso chapadera, chotchedwa chigawenga cha chidani. Lingaliro limeneli limatanthauzanso kuphwanya komwe kumachitidwa chifukwa cha kutsutsidwa kwa magulu ena a anthu. Kawirikawiri kagulu kotereku kumawonjezera kuopsa kwa khalidwe loipa. Ku Russia, chipembedzo, dziko, kusagwirizana pakati pa mitundu ndi chinthu chowawa.

M'madera ambiri, zikuonedwa kuti mlanduwu ndizochitapo kanthu mwachangu pofuna kulenga chidani pakati pa magulu a anthu, kuti kuwonetsera kwaukali koteroko kuyenera kutsutsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, ku Russia, kufalitsa kwachipongwe ku magulu a anthu ndi chilango chokhalitsa.

Kutsiliza

M'nkhaniyi, tinayesera kukambirana za chidani chomwe chiri. Kodi ndikumverera kotani kumene kumabweretsa munthu? Kumbali imodzi, pamayeso oyenera, kutengeka uku kumalimbikitsa ndipo kumafuna kuti achitepo kanthu, pambali inayo - imapangitsa phunziro lake kuchoka mkati, kulikakamiza kuchita zinthu zopanda pake ndi zowononga. Koma tikukhala m'dziko limene likulimbana ndi kulimbika kwa kutsutsana, mmenemo chilichonse chiri ndi tanthauzo lake lapadera. Choncho chidani chimayendera limodzi ndi chikondi, chimachokera ku chidziwitso cha kudzipulumutsa, chimapangitsa munthu kufotokoza poyera kukayikira komweku. Munthu wololera ayenera kuphunzira kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwikawa, kuwagonjetsa ku chifuniro chake ndi kumvetsa zifukwa za mawonekedwe ake.