Mugone, Chilekano
Mavuto a banja kuchitika konse!
Pafupifupi chochitika banja la mavuto a moyo wabanja. anthu ochepa manyazi, koma kuti tithane nawo, banja lililonse pa njira yake. Wina "yopuma" ndipo monga chotsatira cha chilekano ichi. komabe munthu luckier mkazi kupeza mumafanana ndi ntchito limodzi kuthetsa m'nthawi yovuta ino.
Koma ndinadabwa ngati aliyense ndikudabwa kumene muli anthu mavuto omwewo banja? Ndipotu ndondomeko izi ndi nkhambakamwa chabe mosalekeza ena. Ndipo akuphunzira chakhala kwa zaka zambiri ndawala chikhalidwe sayansi ndi kuwerenga maganizo a banja moyo. Mwina mabanja angachite bwino kukhala kwambiri yodziwa zambiri pa nkhaniyi, chifukwa "kuchenjezedwa - ndi forearmed," malinga wakale mwambi Roma.
Tiyeni tiyambe kuyambira pachiyambi, ndicho chaka choyamba cha m'banja. Nthawi imeneyi, banjali kupanga zambiri kulakwitsa, lomwe mfundo ndi ndondomeko yachibadwa. Chinthu chachikulu kuti mkazi panthawi imeneyi amayesetsa kuonetsetsa kuti zonse kuona zolakwa zawo komanso nthawi kuzindikira. moyo banja - ndi zosangalatsa chabe, ndi mitundu yonse ya zosangalatsa onse dzanja limodzi, ndi kwa ena. Ndi udindo waukulu. Ndipo Nkofunika kukumbukira.
Pa nthawi imeneyi ya moyo banja muyenera kuphunzira kugonja. Ngati banja sadzakhala patukani ndi mnzake, banja anabwera kanthu patsogolo. Sikuti kusonyeza kutsatira kwawo malangizo.
Patapita nthawi yochepa, ndiwo lachitatu - chaka chachisanu cha ukwati mabwenzi banjali kokayezetsa kachiwiri. Koma tsopano iwo ali cha anthu otchulidwa zosiyanasiyana, monga ulamuliro, mkubwela kwa mwanayo. Zingatanthauze kuti Mwanayo amasangalatsa banja, koma mkazi wake anakhala koposa kukhala pa ntchito, sakhala ndi nthawi yocheza kunyumba. Ndipo iwo umachititsa izi chifukwa chakuti mkazi wake sasamala za mlandu wake.
mwamuna kapena mkazi, osati chifukwa chokhala ndi nthaŵi kwenikweni kutuluka postpartum maganizo, ndiye akuona kuti ndi maelstrom cha mavuto a m'banja. Limachita mwanayo, kugula zochitika panyumba madzulo alibe mphamvu zokwanira.
Kuthetsa mavuto onse panthawi imeneyi yafupika yekha kuti azimuthandizira mwamuna wake. Yesani kupeza naye ndondomeko maphunziro. Tiyeni silinalinso amachita naye mwana. Koma mbali yaikulu akadali pa mfundo imeneyi adampatsa mkazi. Iwo akasonkhanitse chipiriro zambiri ndi nzeru. Ndiyeno mavuto onse adzakhala utsalira.
Mavuto a banja ndi pafupipafupi zina, ndi chiwiri - chinayi chaka cha ukwati pakubwera kuzungulira kotsatira. Zingaoneke, chabwino, kodi aliyense angathe kuchitika? Zikuoneka zonse kale okhazikika ndi ntchito ankakonda ndalama zabwino, ana afika msinkhu winawake. Koma ayi, si mophweka. Tsopano pakubwera nthawi yokhala okha unrelieved ndi chongosangalatsa. moyo umayamba kufunsa chinachake chowala, ndi, monga ulamuliro, kunja banja. Banjalo anayamba sakukondananso makamaka moganizira zofuna zawo.
The Council kudzakhala pano imodzi yokha - kuyesa kusiyanitsa banja ndi chikondi chawo.
Ngati inu kutsindikiza moyo ndi nthawi imeneyi, mukhoza kumasuka kwa kanthawi kochepa. Mavuto lotsatira ukapezeka yekha pa chinayi - chaka chakhumi ndi chisanu ndi chimodzi cha moyo pamodzi. Apo pakubwera kumverera ena ali yekhayekha. Ana anakulira, banjali kale m'malo watopa ndi mzake. Ndipo zikuoneka kuti ngakhale kulankhula za. Tsopano ndi nthawi anapereka latsopano zolinga zofanana ndi khama ophatikizana kukwaniritsa awo kukhazikitsa.
Ngati mungathe mayeso onsewa, kuti adzatsegula M'maso latsopano kutsogolo kwa inu. Ndipo kukuthandizani malamulo a banja, kudziwa kuti m'pofunika.
Ndi mabanja mwangozi ndi mtundu wa mayesero a mphamvu ndi mavuto a banja umboni mwachindunji. Mtengo, ndiye inu muli! Yopuma nthawi zonse zotheka, koma kumanganso si kosavuta monga izo zikuwoneka pakuwonana koyamba!
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