N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera munthu moyo wa mkazi?

Pa nthawi zonse kuti kusasiyana pakati, panali wina zinkaoneka zazing'ono chinthu: yambiri kugonana fairer anayamba kudabwa: "N'chifukwa chiyani tiyenera munthu?" Inde, chiphunzitso, chirichonse chiri bwino, yosalala ndi bwino Komabe kuchita nkhani imeneyi chifukwa ambiri izo zimayambitsa mavuto. Zimachitika kuti dona wabwino m'zonse, amene kuwonjezera maonekedwe, ndipo ali wolemera mkati dziko, ndi china chirichonse si mosatsata nzeru, salinso chabe kunyalanyaza chiwalo chachimuna. Ndipo chirichonse chiri chabwino pamoyo wake: ankasangalala ndi ntchito zawo, chinkhoswe mu olimba, maulendo mlungu kwinakwake ndi anzanga, kuyendera mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zochitika. Chirichonse chiri wangwiro, kupatula limodzi. No ubwenzi wabwino, palibe munthu, ngakhale wokonda. Ndipo onse chifukwa mkazi modzipereka sindikumvetsa chifukwa chiyani muyenera munthu.

Mavuto zamakono

Mwatsoka, ambiri a makhalidwe ndi oipa kapena kwathunthu kutheratu. Pafupifupi palibe anthu amene amakhulupirira kuti munthu - ndi breadwinner m'banja, ndipo mkazi - mdindo wa moto ndi chitonthozo. Ndi momwemo chinachitika kuti kulikonse akazi, mosazindikira, kutenga maudindo ndi maudindo ambiri kuposa dokotala. Ndipo akukhulupirira kuti osalimba mapewa mkazi akhoza mabanja awo chakudya kapena kulera mwana popanda thandizo mwamuna ndi kutithandiza. Mu nyengo za Kumasuka misa akazi ndi feminism zambiri kukumana mfundo za inu mufunira munthu moyo wa mkazi.

Kodi n'chiyani munthu?

Kodi wodziimira ndi amphamvu kapena mkazi, pali zinthu dziko, popanda zomwe silingamve zonse. Choyamba, ndi otetezeka. Ndipo musanene kuti tsopano ngati munthu kupita, kodi pangakhale mu mafunso awa kwa iwo kumeneko. Kotero, inu anasankha amuna cholakwika. Palibe zodabwitsa iwo ali kugonana mphamvu, chifukwa mphamvu si mu ntchito kapena kuvutika maganizo. Iye ananena kuti munthu chabe mkazi akhoza kumasuka, anapereka danga kwa makhalidwe ndi kukhala osachepera pang'ono osalimba ndi ofooka. Kuwonjezera Pachifukwachi, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti mkazi ndi nthawi akufunika chisamaliro ndi chikondi. Iye basi ayenera kuona kuti, mwinamwake adzakhala kufota ngati maluwa popanda madzi. Ndipo ndani angathe kuti amupatse makhalidwe ena kuposa amuna? Amene ali woyenerera kupita pa zinthu kwambiri zosaneneka kwa wokondedwa wake, koma anadabwa ndi kusangalatsa? Ndipo pambuyo mikangano imeneyi imene mukadali kufunsa za chiyani tiyenera munthu?

Taganizani za izo, zonse ziri bwino kwake, mu dziko. awiri zotsutsana - maziko a chilengedwe chonse. Ndipo kulankhula za mmene abambo ndi amai kumalo ozizira zotsutsana, ngakhale zedi. Ngati muli kuganiza funso ayenera kugonana mphamvu mu moyo wanu, poyesa kupatutsa mabuku. buku lakuti "N'chifukwa amuna '- pafupifupi chuma akazi kutaya chikhulupiriro. Izi si mndandanda wa zinthu anatomical ndiponso maganizo. Ndi 13 nkhani yochepa olembedwa Mwa zina, munthu yemweyo ndi zilombo ku Mars kuposa iwo kupuma ndi mmene moyo. Pambuyo powerenga bukuli, mudzaona kumalimbikitsa ndipo adzatha kusintha vekitala maganizo ake za vutoli. Lightness ndi omasuka, ndi wochenjera nthabwala, pamodzi ndi mfundo zenizeni zogwirizana Chili buku "N'chifukwa Amuna". Werengani ake amafuna, mwinamwake, aliyense, makamaka amayi, amene nthawi zonse amakayikira anthu.