Amakopa "inu" pa malamulo a mawu zodyera

NKHANI khalidwe la munthu m'mawu ake ndi mawu olembedwa kuti ena m'njira zambiri zimaonetsa chikhalidwe wamkulu wa munthu. Iwo ali pafupi zedi ndi fano kuti amalenga pamaso pa anthu ena, motero bwanji maganizo awo kwa iye. Motero, chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri ndi luso bwino ntchito mawu akuti "inu" ndi "inu" kucheza ndi interlocutors osiyanasiyana pokonza makalata ndi zikalata zina.

Woyamba "Uwerenge" mawu aulemu ndi mawu

Amadziwika kuti Russia kwa nthawi yoyamba mitundu aulemu potchula akhazikitsidwa mu mtundu wa buku kuti anaonekera mu 1717. Buku limeneli, buku la zomwe zinachitika ndi nawo panokha Peter Ine, ankatchedwa "Youth moona galasi, kapena zizindikiro khalidwe chidziko" n'cholinga makamaka ku Russia wamng'ono.

Padziko nthawi yomweyo, mfumu enforcers mu mawonekedwe European khalidwe, anayambitsa ntchito apilo kuti "inu" anazitenga ku zinenero zakunja. Mu masiku akale, ochulukitsa kufika pokhapokha ngati munthu, ngati iwo ankafuna kupereka mawu pyakufunika. Ndi "inu," monga zingatanthauze kuti munthu yekha ndi ofunika ambiri. Zinthu zimenezi wapangana ndi ulemu wapadera.

Mu 1722 Peter ine ndidali "Table a maudindo» chikalata ─ liwulo zofanana asilikali, zosakhudzana ndi bwalo tithe, amene anawagawa m'magulu 14. Mu izo, mwa zina, kukambirana mmene angachitire kuti mutu wa udindo wina. mitundu anali osiyana ndipo ankadalira pa malo ake pa makwerero makampani, koma nthawi zonse chofunika mankhwala ochulukitsa monga "Wolemekezeka" kapena "Grace wanu."

"Zopotoka ulemu"

N'zochititsa chidwi kuona kuti odziwika kwambiri kwa ife lero pamtima "inu" mizu ya chinenero cha Chirasha kugonjetsa kulimbikira, nthawi zina wochokera oimira mabwalo kwambiri kusintha kwa zinthu anzeru dziko. Kuona, monga kutsegula ofotokozera dictionary V. I. Dalya, wasenza mu zaka za m'ma XIX. Mmenemo yotamandika kwambiri Russian Wolemba lotanthauzira mawu amadziwika pamtima kuti "inu" monga mtundu olakwika ulemu.

Komanso, mmodzi wa nkhani yake poonetsa podzudzula aphunzitsi anthu amene amaona bwino ndi zofunika kunena kwa wophunzira ake, "inu" osati kuwakakamiza kuyatsa "inu" yekha. Tsopano otere zitha kuyambitsa kumwetulira, koma kwa zaka zapitazo, anapeza mbali zambiri.

Politics, inaukila mawu tsiku ndi tsiku

Atangochoka February utasintha, lamulo la Provisional boma anali anathetsa ndi tithe kalasi. Zapita mitundu kale maziko a mankhwala owayimilira. Pamodzi ndi iwo agwera kusagwiritsiridwa kwake ndi mawu akale "bwana" ndi "mayi", conceding pambuyo October kuukira boma malo ambiri amavomereza mu Soviet Union, "nzika", "nzika" kapena sexless ─ "comrade" analandira amuna ndi akazi. Komabe, Kudandaula "inu" anapulumuka, kukhala mmodzi wa malamulo zofunika ano mawu abwino.

Mu zina anatengera, kunena interlocutor, kuti "inu"?

Malinga ndi malamulo ambiri amavomereza khalidwe zimenezi makamaka zinthu ofunda: kuntchito, mabungwe ndi malo onse. Pa nthawi yomweyo kuti "inu" monga kaganizidwe zinthu zotsatirazi:

1. Pamene kukambirana ndi wochititsidwa ndi sankadziwa kapena mlendo.
2. Ngati mbali bwino, koma zigwirizana timakhala boma, monga ntchito anzake, ophunzira ndi aphunzitsi, atumiki ndi mabwana.
3. Nthawi pamene inu muyenera kukhota kulimbana ndi zaka wamkulu kapena kuganiza udindo utsogoleri.
4. Pomaliza, akuluakulu ndi thandizo ndodo masitolo, odyera, mahotela ndi m'ntchito zina za mtundu umenewu.

Pankhaniyi, muyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti Kudandaula "inu" mlendo ndi ponseponse anakhazikitsa malamulo zofunika khalidwe.

Nthawi zina, pempho akhale pa "inu"?

Mu zina, pangacitike zinthu makamaka mwamwayi malamulo a mawu zodyera kulola pamtima "inu." N'koyenera pa ntchito polankhulana anzake kulongosola wa ntchito, ndi kunyumba kapena patchuthi. Chotero mtundu wa chithandizo mwina kumasonyeza mgwirizano pakati interlocutors, ndi kutsindika chikhalidwe mwamwayi pa kukambiranako. Komabe, kupewa kugwa m'manja ndi zovuta, tiyenera adzanyamula kukumbukira kuti kunena "inu" ndi chovomerezeka yekha:

1. Close anzawo a munthu amene anali kulimbana ndi patsogolo, ndi ubale moti kunyalanyaza zofunika kuyeza zambiri ofunda kusamalira.
2. Akuluakulu akulankhula kwa ana kapena achinyamata.
3. Mu Chingelezi kwa wamng'ono kapena ofanana utsogoleri wolowezana.
4. Pokambirana pakati pa ana ndi makolo mwambo ano limalola ntchito "inu" monga ndi chinacho.
5. Achinyamata ndi kulankhulana ana a pakati pa anzawo, ngakhale sali bwino wina ndi mzake.

Malinga ndi malamulo ambiri amavomereza za mawu abwino, ankaona zosavomerezeka mwamtheradi chithandizo "inu" achinyamata (onse mu msinkhu ndi mu udindo kapena nduna) kwa okalamba. Komanso, chizindikiro cha khalidwe loipa ndi ngokayikitsa njira kuti "inu" antchito pakati pa ndodo ya mabungwe.

Mokoma Ngopambana kulankhulana ndi ndodo zawo

Mbali yofunika kwambiri pa malamulo a khalidwe anthu ndi zonse ntchito "inu" ndi "inu" mu aakulu wolunjika kwa wamng'ono. Popanda kupita kupitirira malire a lofunika, bwana akhoza kuyankhula kwa wantchito "inu" pokhapokha ngati iye ali ndi mwayi anachita mofananamo. Nthawi zambiri kumachitika pamene anaika ubale mwamwayi pakati pawo. Apo ayi, kutchulidwa kwa Kumvetsela kuti "inu" adzakhala kwadalako kuphwanya mawu abwino.

Kukhazikitsidwa kwa mitundu mwamwayi wa adiresi

The ambiri amavomereza mfundo ukali kupereka kwa kusintha pakati pa abwenzi ndi "inu" kuti "inu." Komabe, n'zotheka pokha pokha kumene pakati pa iwo anapereka mtundu yoyenera ubale amalola m'malo mwa mayendedwe ofunda Kudandaula ofunda ndi wochezeka. Kawirikawiri, izi zikusonyeza kuti analipo ndale Otetezedwa mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake wapereka njira ndi mgwirizano ena.

Tikumbukenso kuti malamulo ambiri amavomereza khalidwe kupereka nthawi zina nthawi kofunika chibwenzi azilandira pa nthawi pamtima "inu" wapereka njira ndi womasuka ndi wochezeka "inu". anakhala zikudalira pa makhalidwe la interlocutors ndi zinthu kunja.

Nkofunika mochenjera mumpanda mphindi imene n'zotheka kupereka bwenzi kucheza ikupitirira "inu" monga mu nkhani ya vuto ndi linalephera n'kogwiritsa uka zinthu zovuta. Choncho, kusintha mtundu wa chithandizo m'pofunika kumva chilakolako cha mnzake. Unilateral chomwecho kusintha mu kukambirana pa "inu" ndi zosavomerezeka mwamtheradi, chifukwa amatipeza ankamuona ngati wopanda ulemu kwa mnzake, ndipo anakafika kunyalanyaza izo.

Pamene mwamwayi "inu" agonjera ku kwambiri okhwima "inu"

Kulankhula zodyera chinenero Russian amatipatsanso kusintha kwa wochezeka "inu" zambiri ofunda "inu", koma tsiku lililonse kumachitika infrequently. Komabe, n'zotheka pa nthawi imene ubale pakati interlocutors ndi zaipiraipira ndipo anatengedwa chikhalidwe mwangwiro ofunda. Izi zingachitike chifukwa cha kukangana kapena kusiyana kulikonse lalikulu.

Nthawi zina pamtima "inu" mwina chifukwa chakuti mukukambirana lolembedwa chikhalidwe ndi amapezeka pamaso pa anthu wosaloleka imene mbali zambiri alankhulana "inu" ndi kumvera zodyera ambiri. Pankhaniyi, analankhula mnzake "inu" umboni osati za kusintha ubale lotha, koma ndi maonekedwe enieni zinthu. Mwachitsanzo, aphunzitsi pamaso pa ophunzira amakhala tilankhule wina ndi mnzake "inu" Komabe, ndekha, m'mikhalidwe yoyenera, mukhoza kugula mwamwayi "inu".

Childs olembedwa mtundu wa chithandizo

Onse malamulo pamwamba abwino ziyenela kuyan'anidwa pa nthawi imene kuyankhulana si wapakamwa ndi kulemba. Pankhaniyi, puronauni wanu ndipo muli ndi likulu kalata ndi mtundu wa ulemu kwa chimodzi chokha makamaka kopita. Ngati kalata kapena chikalata ena anatembenukira kwa chiwerengero cha anthu, puronauni ochulukitsa akadalembedwa ndi apansi mlandu makalata (zing'onozing'ono). Lembani "inu" ndi likulu kalata, kunena munthu kuposa wina ndi kulakwitsa.