Kudziwika - loyipa kapena ukoma?

Kumene, ndamva nthawi zambiri kuti kutchuka - ndi mfundo osokoneza, ndipo munthu aliyense iwo ali oyanjana ndi zithunzi zina. Winawake nthawi yina ndi wabizinesi, kuyenda pa mitu yawo ndipo sangathe kuwona kupitirira mphuno, kuti ndi ntchito yake. Ndipo munthu akaona munthu wamba amene akulota yothawira ndi tsogolo labwino mothandizidwa ndi munthu amafuna amphamvu.

Monga mwa nthawi zonse kuyang'ana umboni sayansi, imene kutchuka - ali, choyamba, kufuna kukwaniritsa ena pamwamba, amene kukwera pang'ono, ndipo kachiwiri - ndi unakula kudzidalira ndi kudzidalira kuchulukitsa makumi khumi.

Matanthauzo ndi awiri mbali kosiyana zosiyana. Pa wina zokhumba izi - zabwino, pa zina - zoipa. Tiyenera kudziwa kumene ndinachokera ndi M'MALO ngati malingaliro, pamene liwu kutanthauziridwa mosiyana. Nthawi zina ife sitimvetsetsa? Ife adzamvetsa.

Choncho, ngati ife anafunsa zaka zingapo zapitazo, ku France, ndi Pole munthu wa ku England kapena Russian, kuti ndi kuziyeneleza, tifuna kupeza kotsimikizika yankho - wodzimva, kudzikuza, kutchuka, kudziwonetsa. Phindu lofanana ndi liwu pamene kumasulira chinenero Latin (ambitio). Munthu wofuna amaona ngati wopanda khalidwe, amene akuyembekezera phindu ndipo ndi wokonzeka kupereka nsembe chirichonse cha zinthu zofunika.

Patapita kanthawi, ndi chitukuko cha bizinesi, anthu ku Ulaya (tikulankhula udachitikira ndi achinyamata patsogolo) akuyamba ntchito "wofuna munthu" monga kuthekera kwa munthu amene akwaniritsa bwino m'munda makamaka kuti apeze ndalama chotero otchuka ngakhale mwa chilengedwe chawo.

Choncho, kutchuka - izo si kufuna kukwaniritsa zimene ena ayi, koma kwa ena zachabechabe pati. Iwo likukhalira kuti tsopano palibe amene akumuona mu dziko lino, kunena kuti gulu limodzi, ife akonzekeretse ake matanthauzo sanali ofanana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti aliyense wa ife amalankhula chinenero chake, pogwiritsa otanthauzira mawu kapena mu mafilimu ndi mndandanda amene anabwera ku West.

Kafukufuku chidwi wochitidwa ndi asayansi American, amene anapezazo Tikatenga. Ndi palibe chinsinsi kuti munthu wofuna, akuyesera kuti apindule kuzindikira ndi kuchita bwino, nthawi zambiri afika ku mavuto ndi pang'onopang'ono amasonkhana ndi Vuto. Chifukwa cha kutopa amavala pansi thupi, ndipo, n'zomvetsa chisoni kuti anthu akufa mofulumira kuposa anzawo amene alibe bwino kwambiri.

Koma kodi zokhumba popanda n'chiyani? An phokoso kanthu. Komabe, kuti chifukwa kunali koyenera kuti ena khama, osati poona kuti ndine munthu maudindo. Kudziwika ndi siinamezanitsidwe pobadwa, iwo amaoneka m'kati socialization wa munthu, pamene ife kulumikiza ndi khazikitsani kulankhula ndi patsogolo mmunda uliwonse.

Choncho, mwankhanza bwalo - munthu amene lakwaniritsa chinachake, basi amayesetsa anadzipatsa zolinga zazikulu, chifukwa mu malo ena a moyo iye zachitika kale.

Ndiye zokhumba ponseponse ndipo ku makhalidwe abwino, zomwe limatilimbikitsa kugwira ntchito (ntchito ennobles munthu), kuwasandutsa kuopseza munthu. Popeza kuti zotsatira kachiwiri, American Studies, anthu wofuna ndi zokayikitsa kuti adzabereka banja, monga nawonso makolo ubwana bwino kuika zinthu zofunika patsogolo imene ntchito - ndizo zonse.

Nthawi zambiri ndi chilakolako aukali bwino ndi ndalama akubwera kudzikonda, kapena m'malo izo zifika ku mphamvu. Ndipo kudzikonda ndi zothandiza okha Mlingo zochepa, kotero, mulimonse, umoyo ndi matenda.

Nanga kuziyeneleza? Ngati sayansi choipa konsekonse. Ndipo kukhala oona mtima, aliyense kusankha yekha. Komabe, tingakhale ndi khalidwe m'malo yotithandiza okha kuti kanthu koposa swagger ndi kulima kwambiri a megalomania.